Episode 006: Cigarette Titties & Bootie Bullets

Honesty and timing can change everything—from who we love to how safe we feel. We kick off with cruise stories and candy truck nostalgia, then dive headfirst into the week’s most charged headline: when does gender disclosure become a matter of consent, safety, and trust? We unpack the legal and moral gray areas without losing sight of human dignity, and we ask the hard question—how early is early enough to tell your story so the other person can make a real choice?

From there, we shift into the science of comfort. Do hugs really lower stress? We explore how touch can regulate the nervous system, why oxytocin is real but not universal, and how love languages change what comfort looks like in practice. Then we get practical about the mental load: why “staying out of the way” at home often makes things worse, how clear roles cut cortisol, and the difference between being present and being helpful.

Pop culture throws us curveballs: Brandy’s abrupt Chicago walk-off during the Boy Is Mine tour and the fallout that followed. Health scare or sound meltdown, fans deserve transparency and a make-good when the headliner leaves eight songs on the table. We also break down a Chick-Fil-A moment where only one officer—Black—was asked to pay while his white colleagues ate free, and we wrestle with what allyship looks like in the moment. Add in a jaw-dropping prison transport story, a heartfelt D’Angelo tribute, and an unfiltered rant on insurance and property taxes—because some bills feel like a scam even when they’re legal.

We wrap with three gems: don’t fund emergencies for people who party with their cash, learn to be okay with being disliked so you can protect your standards, and admit that many men couldn’t tolerate what they ask women to forgive. Hit play for sharp takes, real laughs, and a throughline you can use: say the truth sooner, make a plan, and let your actions match your story. If this resonated, follow, rate, and share the show—what topic should we tackle next?

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Transcript

Cold Open, Banter, And Music Bits

SPEAKER_00 0:02

The opinions of this podcast are for entertainment purposes only.

SPEAKER_01 0:06

Our thoughts and views are not to be taken personally.

SPEAKER_05 0:09

It is not that serious. We are trained professionals at being regular ass people. If you can't take what we serving, this is not the table for you. Reservation denied.

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Enjoy the show.

SPEAKER_09 0:25

Yes, yes, yes.

SPEAKER_00 0:26

Table wheel three is back in the building. What's up, guys? What is up? I hope you're having a good week, a good weekend. Whenever you hear us, but I'm gonna go. Enjoy shake your milkshakes. I don't know. I don't know why I said shake your milkshakes. Who the boo is that? Oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 0:50

He got milkshakes.

SPEAKER_00 0:51

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 0:54

Yo, Mario has milkshake.

SPEAKER_00 0:57

Yeah, he can he definitely feed in the bathing bug. Somebody in Cambodia with those. Oh shit, no.

SPEAKER_09 1:06

What up, yo? It's better than that. Oh my god, take for three in the bill. It's better than yours, damn right. It's better than yours, I can teach you. But I have to charge on it. You want me to teach three?

SPEAKER_04 1:30

How about mistake from care a lot?

SPEAKER_09 1:36

Just the fisk. Watch it just watch brother, brother, go.

SPEAKER_00 1:48

Oh yeah, oh yeah. Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_09 1:55

Shake things on the voice. It's better than your life.

SPEAKER_04 2:06

Let's go. Tell him to make a ten. Holly in the DNA's town, stop side, club and dead. Better it's clear. Scream out of calling stuff, looking bad. Let's go this minute, going down in it.

unknown 2:18

Drop six four three with this witch. Real life stop making drop for the bitch. I'm a winning.

SPEAKER_04 2:24

I need it late in it. I said I'm in it. Spin, I'm a winning.

SPEAKER_07 3:06

I'm telling I need a leech. I can say I need a street. I'm playing a little bit. Like a blade on easy street. I don't even talk like the visa speak. And I'm like my brain easy to be. And my wrist was your plug, but the mule is cooler. I have more jewels than your jeweler. Touchin' will push your manula. So pull it hold in the smoke tumor. We're like, well, like stop in the rumors. Like a box of boomers. I just do up a little too big of the wind. Jump up on the screen.

SPEAKER_00 3:36

Oh yeah.

unknown 3:38

On the top button, rollbook last year. Your buttons are really with the plan in the bed.

SPEAKER_07 4:12

Okay, it's okay. Oh that's the use of wheels. Oh my she went to this one. What about this? What about the fellows? Yeah, you're jealous.

Intros, Boat Names, And Cruise Recap

SPEAKER_00 5:06

I hope y'all enjoyed everything about this week. I hope y'all looking forward to this weekend. I hope y'all looking forward to our party next weekend. Halloween stuff party, let's go! Oh my God. What's up, everybody? Welcome back to Table for Three. I am your boy, Mister.

SPEAKER_09 6:23

I am that woman Nina.

unknown 6:26

And I'm a boat cruise.

SPEAKER_00 6:28

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It was getting written all over the seas. Oh my god, my name's Sean Anthony. Yeah, there you go. That's what name of the boat. When you name a boat, if if you if you ever buy a boat, would you name it Sean Anthony? That would be a nice name for a boat. Or would it be like you know, you gotta have a boat have a boat name like uh Baby Hole of the Seas? Anyway, how's everybody doing? What would your boat name be? Uh it would be um black and sassy uh I don't know. Thick and meaty.

SPEAKER_01 7:15

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 7:16

I'm going home. Oh my god. How is everybody? How is everybody's week, weekend? How I know you just got back from your vacation. How was your vacation?

SPEAKER_01 7:29

I did. It was actually it was pretty good. It was relaxing.

SPEAKER_00 7:32

Well needed.

SPEAKER_01 7:32

It was well needed.

SPEAKER_00 7:35

Well deserved as well, I bet. Thank you. Thank you. Yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_01 7:40

To catch up because I'm tired.

SPEAKER_00 7:42

You went to the Caribbean on the cruise, right? Mm-hmm. Yeah. Alright. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 7:47

Just uh uh like a bunch of islands or just um I hit a couple, um, a couple of spots in Mexico.

SPEAKER_00 7:54

Oh Mexico. Oh, yeah, that's right.

SPEAKER_01 7:55

And I went to Honduras.

SPEAKER_00 7:57

Honduras.

SPEAKER_01 7:57

Honduras. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 7:59

Oh, okay. All right. All right. And uh you did any uh the I found me a Latin lover. A Latin.

SPEAKER_03 8:12

Hey yeah.

SPEAKER_00 8:13

Yo, I don't know what it is when it comes to you and like the the Latin community, but you when you talk about you say Mexico and you just become Latin, you become like you don't become Sean, you come Juan.

SPEAKER_01 8:31

Power to my brown brothers and sisters. Pepe.

SPEAKER_00 8:35

So Were you on that cruise like where you it goes there and you get to get off and go travel to things? So that you did that? Yeah. You did any what kind of activities you did on the uh I'm sorry? The activities you did on the island.

SPEAKER_05 8:47

Don't answer that question.

SPEAKER_00 8:48

No, I'm saying like you you did any like jet skiing, you didn't need like uh you went to any parties, like what did you do?

SPEAKER_01 8:55

No?

SPEAKER_00 8:57

Like what did you do like off the boat when you got on the island? Like, did you move the island?

SPEAKER_05 9:04

Like Did you say that he moved out of the island?

SPEAKER_00 9:08

Yeah, like yeah, with with all that thrusting. It was almost like a um Oh my god. Uh the volcano over there. Any volcano eruptions?

SPEAKER_05 9:16

Why you make him out to be like a whore? Yeah, everything. I'm not, I'm just joking.

SPEAKER_01 9:22

So knowing I've been practicing celibacy for the last 28 years. How much really?

SPEAKER_05 9:28

How much? How much?

SPEAKER_01 9:28

How much it costs to break my celibacy?

SPEAKER_05 9:31

How much you selling it for?

SPEAKER_00 9:33

Well. What do they got? Pesos down there? Yo, get out of here. Get out of here. Selling it for pesos. Um well, I'm glad you enjoy yourself.

SPEAKER_01 9:48

Um they did.

SPEAKER_00 9:52

The fact is they, or is that like an uh identification uh term? Oh my god.

SPEAKER_03 10:00

You know, I don't know if you anyway.

SPEAKER_00 10:07

Fuck on, fuck in. Um, you know they got they got three of them. It's like he, her, him, and her, yours, fuck off, fuck in, and fuck it. He, him, and her? Yeah, you know how they always got oh shit. I heard nobody identifies as he. He, him and her.

SPEAKER_01 10:22

I know. I was like, what?

SPEAKER_00 10:24

Well.

SPEAKER_01 10:25

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 10:26

I mean, oh no, that's they, them, and oh, that's only if you're a lady boy.

SPEAKER_01 10:30

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_00 10:31

All right. I'm still learning. All right, cool. But yeah, it's it's good that you enjoyed yourself.

SPEAKER_01 10:35

He, him and her.

SPEAKER_00 10:37

He, him, and her. You don't even realize I said that fall out.

SPEAKER_05 10:43

I'm about to change my pronouns to that.

SPEAKER_00 10:47

Uh Nene, how was how was your uh weekend?

SPEAKER_05 10:50

It was really good. Now you know my voice ain't got none of that trouble. It was it was good.

SPEAKER_02 10:58

Um it was good. Yeah. Yo, no trouble with the first thing she said. It was good. Yeah. I get out of here.

SPEAKER_05 11:11

No, I was good. I finished my first term in school, so I'm happy. Yeah, yeah. I got a week off. Yep. So I'm gonna enjoy it. Good. It's just gonna go by real fast.

SPEAKER_00 11:22

Uh, are you ready for your next semester? I know you're not even thinking about it right now, but but look how fast that went by. It it is going by quick. It didn't seem like it's that fast.

SPEAKER_05 11:30

Oh, okay. No. When you win it, like that.

School Updates And Youth Sports Reality Check

SPEAKER_00 11:36

Yeah, my you know, it's my son's uh midterm this week, so that came by pretty quick. Yeah. And I'm like, okay, I know. And he's acclimating really really well. So he's doing what he had his first preseason game uh the other day against a prep school, and man, that prep school they bust their ass. Oh my god. And it it was and it's cool, it was cool to see uh it's not cool to see your your son's team getting blown out by 50. I know that. It was like a hundred to like the whole team got blown out? Not in your terms. That's what you did on a jet two holiday. No, so it was interesting because his teammate that he played with in high school was on the opposite team on the prep school team. Oh, that's the best. So it was like him versus and he he made sure he guarded him and stuff like that. So it was good, but he's clearly the best player on the team. Like my the way he impacted the game is is something to see. Like, I I know it almost like I'm always bigging up my son, but my son is a really good basketball player, and I'm not talking about like skill-wise only, like he has a basketball IQ that is he runs the floor, he plays defense, he doesn't give up. Like if you watch the game, like his team gave up, and he's still chasing down blocks and boxing out and running the floor and closing out on defen uh on offensive shooters and stuff like that. But yeah, they got blown out by by a hundred. Um not a hundred, but like by like fifty. But he caught a but he got he got a alley oop donk. He yo, he he was just doing his thing. So he's so immature. I I should use another term other than blown out because that's kind of your like that's kind of your thing.

SPEAKER_01 13:28

Leave Nini alone.

SPEAKER_00 13:29

Flown out and blown out.

SPEAKER_05 13:32

I ain't never been flown out.

SPEAKER_00 13:34

We got blown out for a ticket. You said for what? Kool-Aid ticket. Don't do that. That's crazy. They give Kool-Aid tickets out. You ever had like in the neighborhood that one lady who sells like Kool-Aid pops and you you go to a house and buy. Do they still do that? No right to do it.

SPEAKER_01 13:54

I don't remember. I remember when we were younger and they used to have like the candy lady.

SPEAKER_00 13:58

Yeah, the candy lady, or they make little icy's and stuff in the fridge, and they just give you icy's, not knowing if they was giving us like drugs and shit. We was just eating them shits anyway.

SPEAKER_01 14:07

Meanie and I used to frequent this lady's house and she had like two um down kids. Um Wait. She used to sell like Did she sell candy too? Cause I know she sold like the popsicles or whatever.

SPEAKER_05 14:20

Yeah, she sell the block. We're not gonna just slide over that. She used to come to the door, she'd be like, Yo one pop. No, she was like, What you want? Freeze? Yes. And then she'd be like, Yo want pop. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 14:29

And she we used to get our little.

SPEAKER_00 14:31

I hope she gave you know her kids some first. She probably was mixing it with the kids' medicine. That explains it all with you too.

SPEAKER_05 14:40

What? What? Nah, we were on riddling. I was in my neighborhood.

SPEAKER_00 15:10

Yeah, well, uh, other than that, I had.

SPEAKER_05 15:17

But she was a she was definitely the candy lady.

SPEAKER_00 15:21

Yeah, back in Bow's Park, we had like the candy truck. So the candy truck would come around, and I was like, either it was it was used either to get candy or mode of transportation. Because we would jump on the back of the bumper. We'll jump on the back of the bumper and get a ride around uh Bow's Park. Yeah. Not Patra. Oh my god. But yeah, we'll we'll catch a ride.

SPEAKER_01 15:45

Would you get off the bumper?

SPEAKER_00 15:47

Huh? Yeah, if I wanted to go to like my friend's house in the back of Bulls Park, I'll just ride the back of the candy truck and get back there. Oh, okay. But it was funny. You funny as hell. I'm not even gonna, I'm not even gonna Nini are you okay? Not even gonna do it.

SPEAKER_06 16:00

Okay.

SPEAKER_00 16:02

Not even gonna do it.

SPEAKER_01 16:03

What kind of candy did they sell?

SPEAKER_00 16:04

Everything.

SPEAKER_01 16:05

Oh, Chico sticks?

SPEAKER_00 16:06

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 16:06

Oh, those are my favorite. I fucking love Chico sticks.

SPEAKER_00 16:09

No, then it was the candy, the candy Chico stick. We already talked about your Latin, you know what I'm saying? So you like Chico and his stick. Wow. I would never eat anything called Chico stick. I even back then I would never eat anything.

SPEAKER_01 16:22

You didn't even speak Spanish.

SPEAKER_00 16:24

No then.

SPEAKER_01 16:25

So what'd you know about Chico? Right, he's lying. He ate them shits. No, I didn't swallow them a whole. But um remember like only you got that talent. Remember the little cigarette candies? Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 16:38

I love those coming in like the whole pack. It did its job, man. Then it all went down the open deck.

SPEAKER_05 16:50

I'm so happy I quit.

SPEAKER_01 16:52

Oh, I am too. Finally.

SPEAKER_00 16:55

Did smoking affect your body?

SPEAKER_05 17:00

What do you mean?

SPEAKER_00 17:01

Like, does it affect your body? Like, you know what I mean? Does it yes? Yeah. Like titties.

unknown 17:07

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 17:09

Like smoking like it will flatten out your titties.

SPEAKER_05 17:12

Why does she have menthol nipples?

SPEAKER_00 17:15

And then you stop smoking and then go back.

SPEAKER_05 17:18

Seriously.

SPEAKER_00 17:19

Like you try to take up the fuck.

SPEAKER_01 17:23

Like, why?

SPEAKER_00 17:24

I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_01 17:25

Look bad? Why does the cigarette affect titties?

SPEAKER_00 17:28

I don't know. I just, you know, I was just asking. I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 17:37

I don't know. That's crazy. Are you saying like her titties are thin?

SPEAKER_00 17:42

No, no. Cigarette? No.

unknown 17:44

Like, what do you mean?

SPEAKER_00 17:45

Well, we known each other for a long time, right?

SPEAKER_03 17:48

Right.

SPEAKER_00 17:48

So when I first met you, your titties wasn't filling out like that. So I was wondering if that was because of the cigarette.

SPEAKER_05 17:53

Did you think? Do you know how spig was? I was, yes. I was so skinny.

SPEAKER_00 17:58

She was skinny as fuck. She was. I know.

SPEAKER_05 18:00

I was just wondering if the if no, the cigarettes had nothing to do with my titties. I just didn't have none.

SPEAKER_00 18:07

No.

SPEAKER_05 18:08

I did have a boy body. Well, no. I had a boy body. Stop it.

SPEAKER_00 18:14

Well, you can, you, yeah, all right. I had a boy body. You did. You did.

SPEAKER_01 18:18

She was just uh she was a late bloomer.

SPEAKER_00 18:21

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 18:22

Waited until she was 67. Oh shit.

SPEAKER_05 18:28

I thought cigarettes. Well, actually, it wasn't the cigarettes. I had I had my two kids when I was young.

SPEAKER_00 18:34

Uh, okay, that explains it.

SPEAKER_05 18:35

That's why. I I can't like and I didn't breastfeed neither one of them. Cigarettes. You didn't? I didn't breastfeed my daughters.

SPEAKER_06 18:44

Because it tickle. My first order. No.

SPEAKER_05 18:48

It was too close to the R Pit? She bit me. Oh my God.

SPEAKER_06 18:52

She bit me.

SPEAKER_05 18:54

Oh my God. Did you say too close to the R Pit? Wow.

SPEAKER_01 19:02

Not your titties developed at your memorials.

SPEAKER_05 19:04

Damn, you was a hater. I'm not hating that. No, yes, you are. That is not having.

SPEAKER_02 19:10

No, I was just saying, like great for people to steal things. No. Yeah. Oh my God. Don't take a damn.

SPEAKER_05 19:18

God damn. No, I mean, it's not. Be a sex simple shit. You give it to Shore to hear my cup talk about cigarette titties. You don't have cigarette titties now.

SPEAKER_00 19:31

Yo, you are far from a beautiful woman now. I feel abused.

SPEAKER_01 19:36

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 19:37

Oh my god. You could at least give her cupcake titties. Right? He said, my shit, my nipples was next to my armpit. No.

SPEAKER_01 19:53

You flick your nipple and it tickles your funny bones.

SPEAKER_05 20:00

He said I had two pennies on my chest.

SPEAKER_01 20:05

They call you penny loafer. Oh shit.

SPEAKER_00 20:08

Oh no. I'm sorry. Don't worry about him. I didn't intend it to go that way.

SPEAKER_01 20:22

God damn. What's to say you wasn't? You just did. Someone out there for everybody. What?

SPEAKER_00 20:33

No, I wasn't. Almost spit this across the table. I was told, I was told I wasn't, I wasn't the because how skinny I was, I wasn't attractive because I was skinny. So at that time you had a thin mint? Yeah. Thin mint. Sure.

SPEAKER_03 20:51

Oh god.

SPEAKER_00 20:54

I had one of those chocolate and um mint things they give you at the table after uh after Olive Garden.

SPEAKER_05 21:01

Ain't that a thin mint? Ain't this what those are called? I don't know pretty much. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 21:08

At least give me two of those. I was like, at least two of those.

SPEAKER_05 21:11

I miss those. Those things is good.

SPEAKER_00 21:14

The mints?

SPEAKER_02 21:16

Oh, okay. What you thought I was talking about?

Neighborhood Nostalgia And Candy Lady Lore

SPEAKER_00 21:21

We were just rolling off. I'm just saying. I mean, the timing was crazy. Out of here. I was being fat. Alright. Anyway. Oh, it's good to be. It's good to be back. Um, what is going on in the world today? Oh, wow.

SPEAKER_01 21:48

Was that Law and Order?

SPEAKER_00 21:49

Yeah, it was Law and Order. She paused the episode.

SPEAKER_05 21:53

Oh my God. That was crazy. Um, so there's a chan a transgender woman who lied to a man about being a biological female and has been sentenced to 21 months in prison.

SPEAKER_02 22:06

Wait.

SPEAKER_05 22:07

Before I go further, I just want to pass the picture around the table real quick. I just want to make sure I understand Don't say nothing. Just give it you see it, right?

SPEAKER_00 22:19

What do you think? Wait a minute. Who failed to disclose. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 22:24

So let me, I'm gonna finish reading it.

SPEAKER_00 22:26

I just want to understand the I got you. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 22:29

So I'm gonna start over. A transgender woman. And for those who don't know what transgender woman is, it's a born a male and has transitioned into being a woman.

SPEAKER_00 22:42

A female, yeah. Oh, a woman. Uh female? Woman? Lady? Okay, all of the above. Okay, I got you. I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with you. Let's go.

SPEAKER_05 22:57

A transgender woman who lied to a man about being a biological female has been sentenced to 21 months in prison. The man claimed that he would have he would not have engaged in sexual acts with Ciara Walkin, 21, had he known she was born a man. That's her name. Ciara Walkin. Oh, okay. Yes. When the pair, then age 18, met up. Ciara claimed to be on her period to avoid him touching her below the waist.

SPEAKER_01 23:28

She had a 365.

SPEAKER_05 23:31

When Walkin later revealed her status, he called the police. Despite Walkin's argument that the man would have realized her biological status. The jury found her guilty of sexual assault. Despite identifying as a woman. CRO serving her sentence in a man's prison.

SPEAKER_06 23:54

Come on, me, please!

SPEAKER_00 24:03

Oh sorry, God. We are I swear to God, we're listening. We're listening.

SPEAKER_05 24:07

Oh, I finished.

SPEAKER_00 24:08

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 24:09

The jury found her guilty. She's serving serving her 21 months in a men's prison. What did they specifically find her guilty of? I'm still trying to figure that out. So it says, so I'm gonna read it again. So um despite Watkins' argument that the man would have realized her biological status, I guess it don't say.

SPEAKER_01 24:32

I wonder if it's like fraud or that's interesting.

SPEAKER_00 24:41

So they found her guilty for lying? They should have found him guilty for lying. Like, I don't understand why she was found guilty though. It doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense. What? Like what was the thing?

SPEAKER_05 24:56

They said it was sexual assault when nothing happened. Oh she said I'm on my lady my month monthly, so she doesn't have one. She lied. That's a lie to stop them from having sexual activity.

SPEAKER_00 25:11

So if she's been saying that and he said, okay, uh he he ended up lying and saying they did.

SPEAKER_05 25:16

He probably still reached in and touched and found out and decided to call the police.

SPEAKER_00 25:20

Well, that's a sexual assault right there.

SPEAKER_05 25:23

On his part. And that's what I'm saying. Oh my god. But again, he should be arrested for lying.

SPEAKER_00 25:30

Well, I don't I don't think anyone should have got arrested.

SPEAKER_05 25:33

I think somebody else was confusing me. No, but he made a false report, so he should have got arrested for that.

SPEAKER_00 25:37

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_05 25:38

After the case, uh we don't I don't know when he said he didn't realize. I don't I don't know my detective test determined that that was a whole lie.

SPEAKER_00 25:50

Yeah, seeing her, seeing her, you can kind of I mean every female's not pretty.

SPEAKER_01 25:57

I didn't say they was ugly. I did. I mean, what were you hinting at then?

SPEAKER_05 26:04

The features didn't change.

SPEAKER_00 26:06

It wasn't enough. She really got one of those um because male male, that's true. She got a Minecraft head.

SPEAKER_05 26:13

Not a Minecraft.

SPEAKER_00 26:14

She does.

SPEAKER_05 26:15

Like what we're not gonna do. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 26:18

But I mean, there's there's signs. We can't body shame. That's not a body shame. I mean, that's describing her black head. That's the a Minecraft head? That's the best way you could describe it. Like alright, look.

SPEAKER_03 26:31

Everybody's got a Minecraft head.

SPEAKER_01 26:35

My body's built like a Tetris block. She got a live action Minecraft head.

SPEAKER_05 26:41

Aww. She does. Jupe Toe, honestly, what I think happened is she said no and he decided to pursue it. Yeah. And he fucked around and found out. Just listen to her when she said no and let her be ready to tell you what the situation is.

SPEAKER_00 26:55

I I don't where I still don't understand it. Oh shit.

SPEAKER_05 27:01

God damn!

SPEAKER_00 27:04

Um yeah.

Quitting Smoking, Bodies, And Boundaries

SPEAKER_05 27:06

Because I do believe that no, the tri the transgender community, like, I understand where they come from. Well, I don't really understand where they come from, but what I mean is when they when they say that this is who they are, they are they they are a woman or they are a man. But I still feel like if you're dealing with the opposite, the same sex, technically, at some point you have to disclose it.

SPEAKER_00 27:39

Yeah, so that was that was my next thing. Like why I I understand in in a lot of situations it's really hard to let someone know your particular crazy situation. So it's it's it's almost it's almost like when's the right timing. That I think it's time timing is always.

SPEAKER_01 28:28

Right. But I feel like to just eliminate any kind of whatever, maybe you should. And I can't, you know, I don't want to like I don't know how to really put it, but it's like, like you said, people are crazy. And so if you're gonna um if someone approaches you or you approach someone that you find attractive, at that point you know that you're talking to them or they're coming to talk to you because they find you attractive. And so they're potentially looking for it to move to your next phase. To the next phase. Right. So I would think that you would want to just disclose that at that point, and I get the whole thing like, oh, well, maybe I can make them like me for who I am, and then I can tell them later, but no, that's deception, that's lies of omission.

SPEAKER_05 29:18

Because that's not making somebody like you for who you are. Right, exactly. Yeah, so just just now here's my thing. Do you think it's necessary if they have the full on so the whole procedure, like the whole thing is done. Like, they're a woman. They're a woman. They fully transition. They fully transition. Do you feel it necessary that they have to divulge that? Me personally, I don't. Um, I don't I think at that time they don't have to.

SPEAKER_00 29:48

See, the problem with that is now now if you're dealing with a heterosexual male, right? That's say they end up dealing with each other, you have some heterosexual males that don't like the secret of oh, you used to be a man, and that may become a problem because you don't tell them. And if they find out it might be more detrimental at that point. So disclosing that you even if you got the whole thing done, I think disclosing, say, hey, you know, I went through this transition. Are you okay with that? That is is a conversation that still needs to be.

SPEAKER_05 30:27

I can see that because what if you with somebody who's expecting to have kids, you can't technically have any children.

SPEAKER_01 30:32

Yeah, I feel like you should as well because in situations like that, but also you shouldn't deny me the right to truth. Because like so and it's not, and I know most people just focus on the men transition to women. Right, but it's all transitioned to men as well. And I'm not attracted to women. So if I meet somebody and decide to want to further the relationship and they have fully transitioned from a female to a male, I don't know how I would necessarily take that because I understand that now you identify completely as a male and you may have done whatever surgeries and procedures to have certain parts, but I wasn't looking for a female.

SPEAKER_00 31:26

That type of relationship.

SPEAKER_01 31:31

Because for them, they truly are like a man, yeah. Right. A man, you know, but I think it should just be put out there because if we get married and down the road I find Joe's birth certificate that's a Bob and you know that's what I'm saying. Well, it's a Barbara and you've been going around as Brian. No, I'm gonna fail some type of way. Like who the fuck are you? I don't know who I've been with.

SPEAKER_00 31:56

And that was gonna lead me to the next question. So now if that were to happen, right, you find out further down. Now your feelings are your feelings, you've you've fallen for the person that you've met, right? And now you learn that they're not who they say they were originally, or they didn't disclose. I'm not saying that they that's not who they are, but they didn't disclose what their history was to are now. Does those feelings take account? Are you taking account those feelings that you have for that person in consideration when you have to make the decision like, look, this is not what I'm looking for?

SPEAKER_01 32:34

I'm gonna take in account the feelings that we've built.

SPEAKER_00 32:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 32:38

But I'm gonna be devastated because I can't trust you.

SPEAKER_00 32:41

Because you lie. Because most of that feelings is based off a lie.

SPEAKER_01 32:43

Right. Yeah. Yeah. And so I'm like, well, what else are you fucking hiding from me? You know, like I can't trust you if you couldn't trust me enough to be honest about a very important part of your life. Absolutely. And you introduce that into my life.

SPEAKER_00 32:55

Yeah. Yeah, and I and I find that I find that crazy because I think every every time you want to start a relationship, I think the conversation of the past will always come up. Like what you've been through. Like all you could tell me about the the past traumas or what you've been through, what you're not looking for, because you've been through this type of relationship and this and that. Like, if all of that can come up in the I would say the honeymoon phase where you're meeting each other, I think a conversation was like, oh, and by the way, this is and allow that person to choose.

SPEAKER_01 33:28

And you'd be surprised. There are a lot of people that are okay with it. They're okay with it. You just gotta be open-on. I you a woman to me too, so what it's whatever. Yeah, you know, like yeah, because I date a trans man.

SPEAKER_05 33:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 33:39

Oh shit. I didn't. You did?

SPEAKER_05 33:42

No, I said I would.

SPEAKER_00 33:43

Oh, you would? I I thought you said I did. No, I it sounded like she said I've dated a trans man.

SPEAKER_01 33:48

No, I was just trying to figure out how it worked with a trans woman dating a trans man. We got the best of both worlds.

SPEAKER_03 33:59

All worlds.

SPEAKER_00 34:05

Yeah, yeah. I can see you. Yeah, because you don't really you don't mind at all. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 34:11

I just think be honest.

SPEAKER_00 34:12

And that goes for anything, not even just trans, but just the important part of this is I I think the bottom line is honesty. Yeah, don't take away a person's right to make a choice. You know what I'm saying? Because you never know what they're gonna say, even though you have feelings for the person. And I think that in regular relationships too, like with people choose.

SPEAKER_01 34:34

Right, that's what I mean. Like, you know.

SPEAKER_00 34:37

Tell me the truth so I can I can make my decision. Right. And you have to be okay with the decision I make.

SPEAKER_01 34:43

Because if you're choosing to hold something back, then you feel like something's wrong. Right. Absolutely while you're hiding it. So that's a bigger issue you need to deal with. Yeah. Well.

SPEAKER_00 34:59

See you when you get out, I guess.

SPEAKER_01 35:01

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 35:03

But she's gonna get time served. Yeah, she's gonna get served, alright.

SPEAKER_05 35:07

But do you think like serving time was necessary? I don't think so.

SPEAKER_00 35:12

I don't think anyone should have.

SPEAKER_05 35:13

I think that's a bit excessive.

SPEAKER_00 35:14

Yeah, it was.

SPEAKER_01 35:16

Yeah. Because nothing technically constitute a crime.

SPEAKER_00 35:20

I don't I don't see a crime there.

SPEAKER_01 35:22

I'm trying to figure out that's a crime.

SPEAKER_05 35:25

That's a crime. No, the guy who lied needs needs to serve time.

Law And Order: Trans Disclosure Case Debate

SPEAKER_01 35:29

Because I don't know if you remember that story from like a few years back where um I don't remember, I think it was Asian. It was an Asian man who ended up suing his wife because she um even with the dog or something.

unknown 35:48

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_01 35:49

Go home. Because she had like a full like reconstruction of like Oh, yeah, and the kids came out ugly. The kids came out ugly. I remember that. And she never divulged what she originally had looked like. Yeah. And she wasn't attracted. And he won because she didn't divulge that she was a goblin. She had plastic surgery, yeah. Yes, yo.

SPEAKER_05 36:14

Because you go into it, he's thinking that the kids are gonna get the features that the wife had. Right. And as superficial as that is, right, still need to be honest with people.

SPEAKER_00 36:23

Well, yeah, a lot of people will match up just to have a certain type of babies. I know, like I like uh LeVar Ball is uh an example that I could think of on the top of my head. He he wanted to marry and make babies with someone as athletic and tall as he was.

SPEAKER_01 36:36

All my kids look like Aaron Pierre. You know, it's like I just you have to be honest with people.

SPEAKER_00 36:47

They look like AA Rampierre.

SPEAKER_01 36:49

That's yo.

SPEAKER_05 36:51

They look like what?

SPEAKER_00 36:52

A.

SPEAKER_01 36:55

You get on my goddamn nerves.

SPEAKER_00 36:58

Well, yeah, I yeah. In this case, I think both of them should have not have well, he should have got something because he lied, but anyway.

SPEAKER_01 37:07

So this is interesting. Um there's a study, and it's probably more to you, Mister. There's a study that found that your touch can physically um and emotionally heal a man.

SPEAKER_03 37:21

Yo, what says that waiting you had me at hello?

SPEAKER_00 37:29

Like, what the fuck did you just say? That was good.

SPEAKER_01 37:32

Yo, so research shows that couples who hold hands or share a 20-second hug experience um increases uh in heart rate and blood pressure during stressful moments. Um, there are other studies that found that consistent warm touch habits over several weeks can lower a man's daily blood pressure and boost his oxytoin um levels in both partners. What's the what's the oxytonin? Oxytocin. Oxytocin. What's that? Um so the hormone that promotes calm and emotional connection. So there are additional that reveal that holding hands can reduce pain as partners' brainwave sink, while even brief hugs help lower uh cortisol and the body stress hormones. Um a woman's affectionate touch can guide a man's body out of fight or flight mode and into a state of true. This is bullshit. Oh my god, you don't find there's any truth to that?

SPEAKER_00 38:33

No, I don't think so.

SPEAKER_05 38:34

So oxytocin is a hormone in a neuropeptide that plays a viral role in social bonding reproduction in childbirth.

SPEAKER_00 38:41

Okay. Um you don't find no truth in that? I don't I don't think any of it.

SPEAKER_05 38:49

Yeah, I suppose you're Do you even have emotions?

SPEAKER_01 38:51

Yeah, suppose you're dealing with like a really stressful, anxiety-inducing situation, and your wife or whoever you're dealing with, you know, touches you or embraces you to try to calm you down. You don't think that that works and helps lower, you know.

SPEAKER_05 39:09

You don't think the touch of your wife does anything? Yeah, I mean it just makes sense. Makes my peptides stand up. I know when I'm like going through my little depression moments or anxiety, and sometimes I look to like my husband for a hug or whatever. And you know, sometimes it makes me release my crying, and after a while I feel better.

SPEAKER_00 39:33

Yeah, I think some people's thing love language is the physical touch. Yes, it is. Um, but it's not everybody's love thing. So I don't know if that's the case for a lot of people. I mean, I'm sure, I'm sure it works. And I I I I self-regulate, so the touch may help, but I think I'm fine by the time the hug comes and things like that. I I think is uh it helps. But I I you know I'm already I'm already kind of trying to figure out how to how I can kind of maneuver around you just date yourself. Yeah, you just date yourself. No, no, I don't I don't think it's like that. I think if I ever get to a stressful, I know I've I've been to a point of stress levels is like extremely high. And and I I will always talk it out with my wife. I was like, you know, I always talk things out, work things through verbally, kind of visually. Don't touch me. Oh no, no, I'm not saying don't touch me. I'm just saying like he's a robot.

SPEAKER_01 40:31

I think that's like by the time you transgender.

SPEAKER_00 40:34

I think by the time I think by the time the physical touch comes around, I'm already figuring out how to you already naked.

SPEAKER_01 40:44

Yeah, you know so I do think that there's some truth in it, and not even to just the male-female thing as far as that type of relationship. But if you even think of like children and like their mothers or their parents, yeah, and they're experiencing, you know, certain emotions or feelings, and just the touch or embrace of my son is like that. I believe that either.

SPEAKER_05 41:09

My son is like that. Like my youngest son, he loves to be hugged. He loves like physical touch.

SPEAKER_01 41:15

Yeah, I love touch.

SPEAKER_03 41:18

Don't be afraid to touch.

SPEAKER_01 41:22

I don't know why that's funny to you. You're making light of my mental health.

SPEAKER_05 41:31

You're doing your acting debut on here? Yeah. Okay.

SPEAKER_00 41:35

Yo. Oh my god. But yeah, I yeah, I I I think there's some truth to it. I for me, I just it helps, but I don't think it does much.

SPEAKER_01 41:45

He was like, I'm going through something to eat my ass.

SPEAKER_02 41:50

Where's your napkin, bitch? No, that's crazy. That is crazy.

SPEAKER_05 41:59

So do you guys think that women experience high? So they say women experience highest levels of stress when their husband is lying on the couch doing nothing per study. A study published by Oh, I thought the period stopped that lying. Shut up. A study published by Yeah. A study published by the American Psychological Association found that women often experience their highest stress levels when their partners are physically present at home, but they doing shit.

SPEAKER_00 42:36

That's some bullshit.

SPEAKER_05 42:38

Researchers observe that women's cortisol levels, the body's primary.

SPEAKER_00 42:42

They are throwing these fucking cortisol peptides.

SPEAKER_05 42:53

Yeah, we did our job.

SPEAKER_00 42:55

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 42:56

This phenomenon isn't necessarily about resentment, but rather about mental load, the invisible labor of managing and anticipating daily tasks. Even when men believe they're giving their partners a break by staying out of the way, women often feel the opposite, perceive an imbalance and lack of partnership. That don't sound like our problem. In homes where household duties are divided more equally, women report reported lower stress levels, stronger emotional connection, and higher overall happiness.

SPEAKER_00 43:33

Yo, they they just debunked their whole shit with that sentence. They do it to themselves. Look, look, look. We have the so much stigma of what a man's supposed to be in a relationship, right? We got we got all this pressure of what we have to bring to the table, right? We have to live up to a standard for the woman to feel comfortable to even date us. You understand what I'm saying? So we we we do everything that we possibly can do in a relationship, and when we choose to kind of just chill and relax, now we add into stress. I don't I don't I don't like it. I don't like it. I don't like it.

SPEAKER_01 44:18

I now you're I feel like are you blanketing sorry now go ahead are you blanketing that across like the board where like every I know that no I'm not I'm not making this a general term, right?

SPEAKER_00 44:31

I'm I'm talking about those men like me who actually put work into the relationship. Okay, I'm saying so I'm taking that stance. I know there's bum niggas out there that and I'm gonna put that on the women too. Uh-huh. Because they chose that motherfucker who is sitting on the couch and doing nothing, who they can honestly be like, you know what, you ain't doing nothing, get up, get up out of here. But if you're if your stress level is going through the roof because they're not helping out with nothing and they don't got shit to do, then that's not on him.

SPEAKER_05 45:09

No, I have to agree with you. And that's where I was gonna say the same thing. I was like, I that I think that's depends on the type of relationship you have and that you're in. Because, like, yeah, open your mouth. Like, if I'm cleaning, I'll call my husband. No, it's the truth.

SPEAKER_00 45:25

I was thinking about his case, like, yeah, open your mouth. Oh my god. Open it, you're pop to open it yourself.

SPEAKER_05 45:33

So, like, you know, like for instance, like me, if I'm cleaning or whatever, either my husband come out and he'll be like, Oh, um, oh, you cleaning, let me do something. You know, something like that. Or if I see my husband cleaning, I'll be like, oh, let me do something. Or I'll ask him, hey, can you help me? He'll come out and help. I feel like for you.

SPEAKER_00 45:51

She said it with the SK this time.

SPEAKER_05 45:54

Shut up.

SPEAKER_00 45:55

Wow. No college college credits is kept kicking in. Oh shit. One semester down. Oh shit. I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_05 46:04

Second semester down. Look at you. Um, so I just feel like it depends on the level of honestly respect. It's not even the relationship, it's the respect that you have for each other. Because if you like you said, if you got a nigga that's just sitting here all day, every day, and don't contribute shit, what are you doing?

SPEAKER_01 46:23

Yeah. No, that that's yes, that's absolutely real.

SPEAKER_05 46:27

That's so yeah. I I will say I agree with the you causing your own stress, honestly. You causing your own stress.

SPEAKER_01 46:33

This you can't blame it on the guy and what you choose to accept.

SPEAKER_05 46:37

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 46:38

For real.

SPEAKER_05 46:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 46:40

Because if you knew that coming in, like, but sometimes, you know, and I and I'm not saying just problem, this is vice versa now, too. Like, there's women that don't do shit and the men do everything. So I'm not just generalizing just men here, but sometimes you know this going in, and you they have this uh thought that oh I could change this man or woman or something like that.

SPEAKER_05 47:02

That's a major thing for me to say for women, like that. I notice a lot that women really think that they could change or help somebody, and it's like you can.

Timing, Consent, And Relationship Honesty

SPEAKER_00 47:11

It's like he checks all the boxes but that one. It's like, oh, I could get him to change that box. And you realize you realize you put five years and the boxes still haven't been checked, then that's on you. And if your box ain't been checked, that's the problem. Yeah, I'm short and shit.

SPEAKER_05 47:25

Yes, please check your boxes.

SPEAKER_00 47:28

That's probably why he's sitting on the couch doing nothing. The box been been checked too many times or haven't been checked at all. Or he just don't give a fuck about you. Or he got too many boxes.

SPEAKER_01 47:40

That's that part right there. You know what I'm saying? Wow. So yeah. So um Minnik Minaj has um, you know, a few her we talked about recently about her feud with um Cardi B after Cardi released her um new album. And she kind of she kind of spun out. Um well not kinda. I was gonna say kind of evidently she had an album that was supposed to come out in March. I thought that was a lie. She has now um put out and said that she is no longer putting out her album. Um and she says, quote, I hope you're happy now. She says, Okay, I'm not gonna put out the album anymore. No more music. Hope you're happy now. Bye barbs, love you for life. She also went on to blame Jay-Z and said that Jay-Z is the one that is stopping her album. So it's everybody else's fault. Yeah. With her, it's always somebody else.

SPEAKER_05 48:38

But I just want to know what did she do? What did she do to Jay-Z for him to even pay attention to her? Didn't her and um Beyoncé do a song together?

SPEAKER_00 48:51

Well, I don't know what that to do with Jay.

SPEAKER_01 48:53

I can't speak for the side. That's what I'm trying to figure out. I don't know. I don't think that Jay-Z thinking about her. I know. That's but I can't. But again, for but I I I just it's I don't know.

SPEAKER_05 49:04

It's just it's weird to me.

SPEAKER_00 49:07

Listen, I I I seen, I think when I read the the comments, a lot of comments was like, thank you. Great. Don't tell us like this. We don't need any of that shit.

SPEAKER_05 49:17

Which is crazy because me and you were talking about this, me and Shawnee were talking about this earlier, and I was like, um, when she's when she said she was dropping. I'm about to talk about rain, man. When she said she was dropping an album, I was like, bullshit. Because now that you come out and want to talk shit about everybody, now all of a sudden you about to drop an album. And then with her saying that, I feel like she thought that her barbs were gonna be like, yes, Queen Mother, drop an album, but them bitches ain't say shit. The bitch was just like they was like, uh at this point, just stop talking. Like, I'm down, mother. Like, you need to bring really back in, and now now you mad at them for what?

SPEAKER_01 49:53

She's still been going back and forth with saucy salad spinner, and it's like you were just constantly like beefing with everybody. And it's like going home.

SPEAKER_00 50:05

The names you give people is fucking it's astronomical.

SPEAKER_01 50:11

Oh, I didn't say the name right.

SPEAKER_00 50:13

Yeah, I'm sure you did.

SPEAKER_01 50:14

What's his name? Oh, saucy Santana.

SPEAKER_00 50:17

Okay, you said it right the first time.

SPEAKER_01 50:19

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_06 50:22

Saucy Sally.

SPEAKER_00 50:26

Yeah, I think yeah, you know, nobody cares. Uh Nikki, you had like, come on. Like, be great and either do a great album. Right. Either do a great album or you know she's talented. Ride out in the sun while you still get it.

SPEAKER_01 50:43

No, she is talented. I don't want to take away that from it.

SPEAKER_00 50:45

Her legacy, like it feels like she's tainting her legacy.

SPEAKER_05 50:49

It's tainted.

SPEAKER_00 50:50

Yeah, like her taint. I yeah, I think when she got with her husband, uh it tainted a little bit.

SPEAKER_05 50:56

It turned very padding.

SPEAKER_00 50:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 50:59

I think the BBL juices is in her bloodstream.

SPEAKER_00 51:02

But yeah. That's not it is what it is. Um another win for Cardi.

SPEAKER_01 51:09

I know.

SPEAKER_05 51:10

Pretty much so can we take a moment of silence for D'Angelo?

SPEAKER_01 51:16

Oh yeah. Oh yeah, D'Angelo.

SPEAKER_00 51:23

Silence. All right. Um you know, I would actually You have no empathy. I do. I have emph empathy for the child. Uh he lost both his parents. Um, and I know that's probably a hard thing to deal with. Angie Stone. I thought, no, it was the son. Was it? They had a son together. So Angie Stone and D'Angelo both passed, and he lost both of his parents. Yeah. Yeah, that's sad. Uh basically had a cancer.

SPEAKER_05 51:52

Yeah. So that is taking people out. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_00 51:56

You know. Uh shouts to you, man. I hope you are alright. All right. Who? The son. Oh.

SPEAKER_05 52:01

I'm about to say you shouting out D'Angelo.

SPEAKER_00 52:03

No, the son.

SPEAKER_05 52:04

He was going to when he said it. Like he was gonna pull one of the clouds aside, like, thanks, man. Right? He'd be like, Yo my nigga. Now my nigga.

SPEAKER_00 52:14

His first album was the shit. I I fucking loved his first album. You know, I did not.

SPEAKER_01 52:19

I'm not, and I know it's been a long time, but I didn't realize brown sugar came out in 95. Yeah, yeah. Like, oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 52:25

When you think about the songs, yes, when you think about the songs that we were singing and how old we were. I know you wasn't, and how old we were, though.

SPEAKER_00 52:33

It was like the fact that I knew he was talking about weed uh immediately, I was like, this dude is fucking amazing. 95, and I'm like, how the fuck? But yeah. Yeah, cruising, you're my you're my lady. That was my favorite album to listen.

SPEAKER_01 52:51

Yeah, too. You can tell nobody nothing when um the he made that uh video and the whole controversy of Was that a piece of his meat in the video? That part who who if someone was down there. Remember his his naked video? Mm-hmm. He was naked video. Did you see I thought you was down there?

SPEAKER_05 53:07

Did you see Scrappy Doo? That was Did you see Scrappy Doo try to uh pay his homage to the video?

SPEAKER_00 53:15

Oh he did that a long time ago.

SPEAKER_05 53:17

Oh, really? Is it just popped back up?

SPEAKER_00 53:18

Yeah, that shit popped back up. You need to throw that away. Oh my god. He did that shit years ago. Ugh. And and because uh he's trying to use his I think that's disgusting, but he's trying to use his death to to resurface that video. That shit's stupid. Doing all those uh down movements. He just uh he was in there doing CP movements, he ain't got no net. That's not throwing up gang signs and shit.

SPEAKER_05 53:50

He just looked like lump you know how you like mold, you play with play-doh and you just squeeze it and just leave it all lumpy looking. That's how he looked. Well, you know not lumpy.

SPEAKER_00 54:03

Well, yeah, rest in peace, D'Angelo. I yo, you played a big part in my uh my growing up listening to your music.

SPEAKER_01 54:11

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 54:11

I I sure enough was playing cruising in the car like every picking up these girls.

SPEAKER_01 54:16

Just nasty.

SPEAKER_00 54:17

Mm-hmm. My mama car. Oh my god. Taking my mama car acting like it was mine. Like, nigga, you don't owe no Toyota with a fucking bracelet on no fucking deck. I'm like, that's not your car. I used to be stunted. I used to go. Like, this is my car. Oh, you got a car? Yep. Fuck it.

SPEAKER_01 54:45

Damn right.

SPEAKER_00 54:47

Smell like cabbage and oh my god.

SPEAKER_01 54:51

Jerk sauce. Go to bed. Jerk sauce. Good night. Got a question for y'all. Out of all the bills that you pay, what's the one you hate the most? Insurance.

SPEAKER_05 55:06

I was gonna say it's it's between rent and fucking a car note.

Touch As Medicine: Oxytocin Or Nah

SPEAKER_00 55:11

Uh I fucking hate insurance. You mean like car insurance? Car insurance. Home insurance. Any insurance bill. Yeah. Because I'm not getting anything out of it. I don't crash my car as much to benefit off of a car insurance. I nobody comes in here and try to steal anything for a house insurance. Like, I'm paying insurance in case shit happens. I fucking hate it.

SPEAKER_01 55:38

And you think about it, it's like, okay, so you could pay for years of insurance and then you finally have something happening and you still have to pay a deductible.

SPEAKER_00 55:49

And it depends on the type of insurance you get. Yes. The damage might not even cover it. So you gotta pay out of pocket and then still pay the insurance. Like I fuck I I don't understand insurance.

SPEAKER_01 55:58

Because you're paying for everybody else who don't have insurance.

SPEAKER_05 56:01

Right. I feel like if you do like, you know, some of those extended warranties for your car and you pay those and it just builds up money for you just in case a repair that's not covered. Yeah. You could pay it that way. So I feel like insurance to be like that. So when you be like, okay, it's been like 25 years, bitch, I'm canceling this shit. They should give you your money back.

SPEAKER_00 56:21

I got$30,000. They should give you my money back. Exactly. But they they just take it, you don't use it. They just take it and do whatever I I that's the biggest. That's the biggest scam.

SPEAKER_05 56:34

They paying out all them dumb bums that keep crashing.

unknown 56:37

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 56:37

I fucking hate it. I fucking hate it. Get my money back.

SPEAKER_05 56:41

Give my money back.

SPEAKER_00 56:42

Like, I don't mind rent. I don't mind car note because you know it provides it provides everything that I'm paying for. Like, you know what I'm saying? I have a place to live. I could take a shower. I could eat. I could cook. I could, you know what I'm saying? I got things that I can do in a in a place where I can that I'm paying for car, I'm I'm using it, I'm driving it. You know what I'm saying? Like, so I don't mind paying for that shit because it's shit I like. Insurance? Yeah. What the fuck am I using insurance for?

SPEAKER_05 57:08

I say that because I just don't want to fucking pay a bill.

SPEAKER_01 57:10

I hear you. I hear you. So, Nene, what would yours be?

SPEAKER_05 57:14

I said it was between um rent and fucking car note.

SPEAKER_00 57:17

Yeah. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 57:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 57:19

Would it still be the same if it was a mortgage?

SPEAKER_05 57:22

Yeah, because I don't want to pay no bills. I'm gonna keep my money.

SPEAKER_01 57:27

Mine would be property taxes. That I despise.

SPEAKER_05 57:31

I agree with you. I didn't even think about that.

SPEAKER_01 57:34

I despise that. Especially like so car taxes. So you purchase a car, you're paying taxes. Yeah. Then you bring that shit home to wherever you live, and they're like, oh. We're gonna charge you for that.

SPEAKER_06 57:44

Yeah. Pay us taxes every year. It's stupid.

SPEAKER_01 57:48

Why am I still paying you taxes because I own something in your town? In your town. Fuck out here. Or I purchase a home or property, what have you, and I'm paying taxes on it every year, and I could pay off my house to or my property to where now I am quote unquote the owner of this property. And I still have an obligation to pay you taxes on something I own. Yep. Which is crazy. Wild.

SPEAKER_00 58:19

Might as well get a so that that's in line with insurance. I I I anything like that where is like what's the benefit of this? Like, if I'm not, if I if I pay this shit off, I should pay this shit off in everything that goes with it. So yeah, I yeah, I can't stand it.

SPEAKER_01 58:37

Because you technically don't ever own it. Because the minute you don't pay it, they can come after.

SPEAKER_00 58:44

Yeah, you stop paying taxes. Now you got somebody who like somebody who trying to get in the real estate game, buying houses off they non-paid taxes, now you lose your house. Yeah, it's this bullshit.

SPEAKER_01 58:55

You don't pay your taxes for a couple years, and you come out your car going. Yeah. Collateral.

SPEAKER_00 59:01

Like, what? I still don't own that.

unknown 59:05

Right.

SPEAKER_00 59:06

You just took the bank's car.

SPEAKER_05 59:07

You took my Uber. That was my job's car. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 59:14

I agree. I agree with that. Taxes and fucking insurance. Fucking biggest games.

SPEAKER_05 59:20

No, seriously.

SPEAKER_00 59:21

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 59:22

So um a couple officers had went into um uh Chick-fil-A.

SPEAKER_01 59:29

Yeah, I heard a couple officers. That was a Chick-fil-A number five meal. Yeah, yeah. A couple officers.

SPEAKER_05 59:38

In Augusta, Georgia.

SPEAKER_00 59:41

Um I'm sick of y'all. So we ain't get past semester number two yet, so don't look at me like that.

SPEAKER_05 59:55

You done from being earlier, what you said, so just shout it out. All right, I will. So four officers went into Chick filler in Augusta, Georgia. Um, and three of those officers uh received free meals and one had to pay. Can you guess why?

SPEAKER_02 1:00:21

I don't want to make it a racial thing, but I figure.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:25

didn't really like chicken. Why would you go into a chick filter?

SPEAKER_05 1:00:32

That's exactly why it was. Three white officers got their meal for free, and then one black officer had to pay for his meal. And he said he was humility. Well, I see why he had to pay. He was humiliated, excuse me, after being the only member of his group asked to pay for breakfast at a Chick-fil-A. While his three white colleagues were given complimentary meals. Tracy Reed, an officer from Clover, South Carolina, said he and his colleagues stopped in a Chick-fil-A in Augusta, Georgia during a recent work trip. While it's common for restaurants to offer free meals to law enforcement, Reed, who was the who was in uniform along with his peers, was the only one not offered the courtesy. They was like, we only got three free meals to get if you won't get one. That's crazy. He said, We came in together, same uniform, stood in line. There was never a time where they were not together. Um, one of Reed's white colleagues told the TV, Reed said the incident left him feeling humiliated. Why I can't say that. Humiliated and embarrassed. Jesus Christ. It seemed like it was a racial issue to me. Reed continued. Delete it. Delete it all.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:53

Here's my question. Did the white cop still eat their breakfast?

SPEAKER_05 1:01:57

You know they did.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:59

They still took it.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:00

Yeah, he paid for his.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:01

I mean they wasn't unified like walked out.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:04

I wouldn't have paid for shit.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:05

So they wasn't unified.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:06

They wouldn't have got my fucking.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:07

They say, yo, you know, if he doesn't get one, we don't want it. But the brotherhood. Yeah, I know, right? They supposed to be.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:14

Right? Y'all don't see color.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:15

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:16

They see blue. We see blue. But he is blue.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:19

None of them was like, you know what? Nah, I'm gonna pay for his meal. It was like, I'm gonna eat my mac and cheese. At five in it in the morning.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:26

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 1:02:27

None of them. None of them just decided to step up and say, yo, nah, this ain't right. Um, if he ain't eating free, we ain't eating. Or I'm taking I'll take care of his bill.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:36

Right. So it doesn't say what happened. It's such a tricky, like, this is a very tricky like situation in my mind because you don't have the right to demand that a restaurant give you free food. Right. And so it's like, I think it's shitty that they did that. I'm not surprised. But I think that they all should have just been like, well, you know what? We all gonna pay. None of us gonna eat here. Or we are gonna pay.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:02

We're leaving. Yeah, or we all gonna pay. Yeah. Either we all gonna pay or we all gonna leave.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:07

That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:08

Like, I felt like he should have just fucking left. Like, okay, I'll go eat somewhere else where I'm appreciated.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:14

Yep. And I left the left all his colleagues there eating that shit. Because if they still ate that, if they still took the food and sat down and ate and shit, knowing that they was being racist to me, and they accepted the racism, then we see what they're saying. I would have left. I would've left them right there.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:30

Because he clearly wouldn't have been there talking about uh I was humiliated and embarrassed because you had to pull out your wallet. I would have left.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:36

Stop meaning.

Mental Load, Couch Time, And Division Of Labor

SPEAKER_05 1:03:37

I would have left. You couldn't just let it rock. No, I it it didn't need to be pointed out. We were good. We were good, thank you.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:48

What? We were good.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:49

You were clapping your hands like a seal.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:55

I probably looked like what too. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:57

I was like a black ass seal.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:08

So there's an interesting story that um I was about to say somebody told me fish, but oh my god. No in Mount Vernon, you know. I need it today in Mount Vernon, New York. See how I recover it. No. So a nope. Not gonna get away with that one.

SPEAKER_02 1:04:30

Humiliated. Don't do that. You say humiliated? Don't do that.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:39

All right. So a prisoner was hospitalized Thursday night after being shot in the leg by another inmate inside a prison transport uh van. So the incident occurred near West Lincoln Avenue in Oak Street as five prisoners were being taken to the Westchester County Jail in New York. And the police chief states that um there were two officers seated in the front of the van when the gun went off. So investigators identified that the alleged shooter, Louis Santos, 32 of the Bronx, who had been arrested earlier the um that week in connection with a forcible touching case on October 15th. So law enforcement sources said that Santos has smuggled a 22 caliber revolver into the VM by concealing it in his buttocks. Oh, wait. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. What? Wait, what? Now that's talent. I don't know much about guns, but how big is a 22 couple?

SPEAKER_00 1:05:46

It's not it's not a big it's not a big pistol. But it's still talent. It it's it's it literally is like that big. Oh, is it really? It's it's small. Oh, it's like a pocket pistol.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:54

Yeah, it's it's small. Okay. That's still talent. That is talent. Because think of the shape. That's why that's why I'm saying that's talent. It's like a butt plug. No, it's not. I know. I'm just absolutely not. No.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:09

Neeney's like, my butt plug is not that shape. It don't curve. It's not a shape. I beg your pardon. Nothing's going in my ass shape like that. Yo. Can you imagine getting hit with a shitty bullet? Like, wild to me.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:29

Imagine it going off in your ass.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:31

I know. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 1:06:33

That's talent. That's what I'm saying. If you can squeeze the trigger.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:42

And then shoot out the booty hole. Yo, he a booty assassin.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:46

Oh shit. I'm gonna take this show on the road.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:51

Look what I can do. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_06 1:06:55

That's crazy. The amazing hole pop-up.

SPEAKER_00 1:07:05

Hey yo. Right out your ass. Holy shit. That's wild though. The amazing Oh my god. And you see what he looked like. Yes, that's why it's crazy.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:20

Like. Yeah, he got a uh an indoor Eddie. I'm just trying to picture him putting it up there. Or did he have someone else do it for him to smuggle it in? Probably both.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:32

You gotta be a mule for him to just easily stick that in his ass with ease. Like it's nothing. Like, you gotta be real comfortable to bend over and shove a gun up your ass. Bro. Nah. Like just hearing it the way it sounds, like that's crazy. Like you really leg cocked up on a chair, just like, all right, let me.

SPEAKER_02 1:07:55

I'm gonna kill this nigga. Like, oh, I'm about to shoot it all.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:00

Right.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:00

Like put this in my ass real quick.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:02

Oh, yeah. You think he stuck it in there dry? That nigga about to get it. You think he stuck it up there dry?

SPEAKER_00 1:08:09

Um, I'm hoping not. You know, you gotta clean your pistol with like oils and grease and shit. So he probably loobed it up a little bit.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:17

He don't look like he the type of person that knows about cleaning the pistol, taking it apart, and doing all that shit. That's sad. You know, somebody probably paid him to do that.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:28

If I'm going to jail, I'm taking this nigga with me. Where my pistol at? Shove it up my ass.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:33

Nah, he looked like he needed money, and somebody was like, I got these clothes. You shove this pistol up your ass and shoot this dick on the how am I supposed to get him in here?

SPEAKER_01 1:08:49

You already know. Is a nine bigger than a 22? Yes. Okay. You think he used some of Diddy's oil?

SPEAKER_05 1:08:58

He was just take that, take that while he was trying to put it in there, like, you know. He's playing Keisha Cro.

SPEAKER_00 1:09:04

His oil's got drugs in it, so he probably didn't feel the pain either.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:07

Oh my God.

SPEAKER_00 1:09:10

Kill his nigga. Not a head numbing cream.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:19

Absolutely. You could do the last one.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:23

So um Monica and Brandy have gone on tour for the Boy's Mind tour. After 27 years since that um song dropped, congrats to them for dang, it's 27 years. That's easy.

SPEAKER_07 1:09:36

Um, the boy is mine, the boy is mine, the boy's mine.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:40

So they've been hitting um various um cities across um the US. And uh I'm surprised y'all didn't go to a show yet. One of their stops is Chicago that they um went to, and the concert ended abruptly by Brandy during uh one of her sets. Um and it was really strange the way that it ended. She just I watched the video, just walked off.

SPEAKER_00 1:10:07

Walked off stage. But she said some c a couple things before she walked off.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:11

Yeah, but it don't coincide with what they say.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:15

And then Monica came out the mouth and kind of smooth everything over, and then the lights came on. Yeah. And everyone was like, oh, so the concert's over. And evidently Brandy had about eight more songs to perform, and her and Monica were supposed to perform The Boy is Mine.

SPEAKER_00 1:10:35

The whole reason why they go on the tour. Correct.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:37

And so they feel extremely cheated, and so now um they're actually on like I saw online, like they're trying to find ways to like sue and get their money back sue and get their money back. Yeah. But Brandy um has come out with an apology and said that she was experiencing dehydration, um, and she felt like she wanted to faint, which is why she had to get off stage and cut her performance at that point. Um a lot of people are saying that, you know, we feel bad for you if that was the case, because health scares, you know, take care of yourself. Because even Monica right now um is dealing with they found two weeks before um them going on tour that she has paralysis. Um and one of her vocal cords. And one of her vocal cords. So she's been singing through it. Y'all get on my nerves. So she's been singing through it. But um I'm so glad this ain't video ticket. So Brandy has come out and said that it was a medical emergency, a house scare. But the interesting part is so I had showed Nene, because a video has been around on TikTok of people at the concert and where they were strategically seat sitting. Yep. And you can see Brandy go off stage and go around to the side of the stage where um her crew was with the sound. Yeah. And she literally says in the microphone to hands, give me a minute, I'm trying to fix whatever. So you're led to believe that it's a sound issue that she's having with her performance, and that's why she got off stage. Yeah. And you can visibly see, like, she's cussing people out, like, what the hell?

SPEAKER_00 1:12:32

Yeah, she said it right before she got off stage about some of her sound. Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:37

And then in that video, some of her people realize that they're being recorded, and they start flashing their flashlights from their phone to block them from their view from recording what's going on. So it was it a health reason, or was it a sound issue and you had a tantrum, or because people are like, okay, well, if it was a sound issue for Brandy, why wasn't it a sound issue for Monica? Right.

SPEAKER_00 1:13:05

Well, so it is a few things.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:07

It was a Ray J.

SPEAKER_00 1:13:10

Well, both uh okay, both can be true, right? Both can be true. It could have been a sound issue to where she have she was struggling so much to sing the song that it affected her vocal cords.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:21

Not while you sing and walking off the stage. Right.

unknown 1:13:23

Right now.

SPEAKER_00 1:13:25

Then it could be a it could be the sound issue where she just got fed up and frustrated, which is kind of fucked up. You end the show because whatever.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:32

She ain't even in the show, the bitch walked off.

SPEAKER_00 1:13:35

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:36

So explanation. And Monica had to come out and be like, give everybody grace.

SPEAKER_00 1:13:44

I I think she was just on some selfish shit.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:47

I'm sorry if I had to pay money to go see that, living here to go to Chicago. You know, people travel. People travel to go see people, you know. I would have been pissed. I don't care if I went from here to Foxwoods, I would have been upset. Yeah, I would have been extremely pissed.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:01

Like, and especially if the the explanation and all of that don't add up.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:06

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:07

Now I feel like not only not only did I pay this money to see everything and got to see nothing.

SPEAKER_00 1:14:15

The experience, you yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:16

Yes, and then I feel like you're lying to me now because you you did one thing and then you come out with another story.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:24

Yeah, that's wild.

RIP D’Angelo Reflections And R&B Memories

SPEAKER_01 1:14:25

Especially because people also spent like dough on the meat and greets show and like it's not cheap. No. And you essentially and there was no like, oh hey, we're gonna make it up to you. Yeah, it was just we're gonna have another show or what have you. But even if whether it was sound issues, mechanical issues, technical issues, health issues, why didn't someone from either team, her team, either team, come out and say, Hey. This is what it is. This is what it is, the show's over. I'm sorry, so sorry. So did Monica perform at all? Did she go first? Yes, so they were doing the way like the um the concert has been set up is they each have um different acts that they do solo. Okay, and then they have different acts that they do together. Um I I don't know. It just I think it it put a lot of um bad taste in a lot of people's mouths. Yeah, it would it would fit.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:30

And that's not really that great, even though she really didn't know. But the grace of Monica, huh? But that's what I'm saying. Like, even with that, if like if people do sue to like get their money back and stuff, that kind of affects her, and if she really didn't have anything to do with it, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_01 1:15:44

Right. Because if it wasn't a health scare, if it wasn't a health issue, right, and it really was an issue, like technical issues with the sound, there's lots of performers who have had sound issues during their performances, and they continue through. And it's not like Brandy can't sing. We all know Brandy has a so just keep singing, girl.

SPEAKER_00 1:16:05

Like or you know I mean I heard her when she was singing. I didn't I didn't hear any, I don't know what it was. That was all her, right?

SPEAKER_01 1:16:11

Right.

SPEAKER_00 1:16:12

I I I didn't hear the the I don't know if it was she couldn't hear what was in her ear in the in the um the inner, but most people at that point include the audience.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:22

I mean, you done seen Patty LaBelle cuss her people out mid-concert when stuff then went wrong. I mean, Mariah Carey didn't fire people on stage, you know, like you saw Mario cussing the cameraman out like, get the fuck off the stage.

SPEAKER_00 1:16:34

You do what you have to do to give the people a show that they deserve because they pay for it.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:38

So it was like that's why I pay for cowboy carter tickets because rain shots she's gonna do what she got to do.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:48

Because she was what, stuck up in the air on a horse and still performing.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:51

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 1:16:52

Hey, so that's probably why she hasn't been on the tour for a while.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:56

True. But I guess they um just came back. Uh I think it was what Cincinnati. Yeah. They just performed and Brandy's back um and they performed. Yeah. But they need to do something for the people of Chicago. No, they did. For real.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:09

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:09

Yeah. It was gypped. And I don't want to say y'all because I don't feel like Monica had a part in that, but exactly. Um they were gypped. Brandy could just go back and do her part. Yeah. Yo, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 1:17:19

The way y'all ride for Monica is crazy.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:21

They could have threw they could have threw Ray J up on the stage. He could have done a juggling act or something, you know.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:27

He could have did one wish.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:29

Right.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:33

Nope.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:34

If that hell could lose. Nope. Even I made that sound good. No.

SPEAKER_08 1:17:39

Pull on stems, the ball got the ball run out. And tell the friend drop a gem.

SPEAKER_00 1:17:53

All right. All right, all right. Um let's get to it. Let's get to it. Let's get to it. Gem number one. Uh, I found this hilarious. Um, motherfuckers will have fun with their money than want to borrow yours for important shit. So don't ask me for money. I I've gotten to the point where just don't ask me. I would love to help, but it depends on how much I'm helping.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:26

Yes, tell it.

SPEAKER_00 1:18:27

Can I just speak on something quickly? Okay. You like, you opened up the what the fuck?

SPEAKER_01 1:18:38

Um so and I don't even give a fuck. So a family member um recently have made a few posts on social media about um they've been struggling financially with their um their new family. Wait, new family? Well, you know, they they dropped one for another.

SPEAKER_00 1:18:56

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_01 1:18:57

Or they dropped ours for another. Oh, okay, gotcha, gotcha. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:19:01

I think I I I'm putting this together.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:03

Many. And so they put a post out saying, hey guys, you know, I'm struggling, trying to support my family. If anybody can help, here's my Cash App. You know, really like heartfelt, like, oh my God, yeah, we about to be out here homeless and selling kneecaps. And so, you know, people was giving their well wishes and stuff. And I think that some people did help donate to the cause. So then I just saw and that was maybe like a what was it maybe like a couple weeks ago. A few weeks. Yeah. So I just saw um another post maybe a couple days ago. The similar post saying, hey, still struggling out here. Yeah. Um, still can use whatever help you got. Thank you so much for shopping.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:51

And I'm not friends with everybody in my family, so I didn't see those.

SPEAKER_00 1:19:55

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:56

And not even a half hour after I saw that post, I then got a message.

SPEAKER_02 1:20:04

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:04

I got DM'd from that that person saying, Oh hey, how you doing?

SPEAKER_05 1:20:13

Now when was the last time you spoke to this person?

SPEAKER_01 1:20:17

Four years ago. It's been four years since I've spoken to this family member. Holy shit, for real?

unknown 1:20:23

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:23

No, seriously, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_00 1:20:25

Seriously?

SPEAKER_01 1:20:25

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 1:20:26

It's been that long.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:28

And the last time that I actually had a conversation with this person through a messaging app was back in 2010. Where I messaged them for something and they never replied.

SPEAKER_00 1:20:46

So I must I must be getting this person wrong.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:49

Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:20:49

I don't it's a I think it's a different person. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:53

And so, you know, immediately when I got the message, I'm like, oh, I know what this is about. Okay. Now all of a sudden, these people, you know, you're a pen handler. And so I'm like, oh hey, what's going on? Now I know what's going on. Right. Like, there wasn't any other conversation. It was, hey, you got money? I'm struggling. You got money? I need it. And I know a lot of people think that my door is open and they go both ways, but my bank is closed.

SPEAKER_00 1:21:28

Well, the door is open, but the bank is closed. So I just want to crack it. Stop letting the devil use you.

SPEAKER_05 1:21:38

You make a deposit.

SPEAKER_01 1:21:40

Um bank full. I find it so insulting.

SPEAKER_00 1:21:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:21:51

That, and I'm not, I I don't want to make light of anybody's situation.

SPEAKER_00 1:21:56

Off mic. I need to find out.

SPEAKER_01 1:21:57

You know, I don't want to make light of nobody's situation, you struggling, what have you. Yeah. But I find it very, very interesting that you don't have the time of day for none of your family down here, including me.

SPEAKER_00 1:22:06

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:07

And because they live out of state. They move on to.

SPEAKER_00 1:22:11

Oh. Oh, okay.

The Bills, Taxes, And Why Insurance Sucks

SPEAKER_01 1:22:13

And yet, now that you've decided that you're struggling and you need help and you can't get it from the people that you chose to now start a new life with, you soliciting down here. But why am I your target? And I find it interesting because this person's mother was also I was a victim of his full diaper wear mother needed, you know, having a sob story. And needing funds. And I donated to the cause and pleaded and pleaded and cries and tears and and you know, Justin Timberlake songs. Now I'm gonna pay you back.

SPEAKER_00 1:23:07

Cry me a river.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:08

And never got anything back from this person. It's been what, like five months now? Oh no. No, no, no. It's longer than that? It's been over a year now. Holy shit. Um their child is now reaching out, suffering. And I'm I'm your reach out. Like, I don't understand. So they they they don't reach out for nothing else but to take a loan out. Yeah, and I'm fine. So it was just very interesting when you just brought that up. Yeah. I'm like, I'm I'm I'm insulted, and I feel like the audacity. The audacity. I didn't mean to. And my response back was just like, yeah, it's crazy out here.

SPEAKER_00 1:23:46

Yeah, I know. It's it's tough for everybody.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:48

I ain't got nothing.

SPEAKER_00 1:23:49

I ain't got nothing.

SPEAKER_05 1:23:50

It really is.

SPEAKER_00 1:23:51

I guarantee you that wasn't intentional. I just I didn't know that it was going to be a good thing. We know that was crazy.

SPEAKER_05 1:23:58

I was like, that's so funny though.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:00

And so you have to just be very careful with um what you do and for who, because it's so crazy as a family member, though, too. Yeah, and people are just shitty regardless of who they are.

SPEAKER_05 1:24:10

Wow, like I'm that's wild of me to pick a family member. One, we don't even talk like that. Two, I've never asked you for anything. You've never asked me for anything, and I just come out the blue to be like, I've had I got cousins that do that too. Um, and I'll be like, I ain't got it. Cause I don't. And what made you think that you could ask me for money?

SPEAKER_01 1:24:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:24:36

It's that's weird to me.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:37

Especially when you've given your family your ass to kiss.

SPEAKER_05 1:24:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:42

Yo.

SPEAKER_00 1:24:43

Off mic, I we we just I gotta figure out who the fuck we talk about. But anyway.

SPEAKER_05 1:24:49

But I think that's crazy, but yeah, that's that's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 1:24:51

So do better. Yeah, do better in life. That was something. Anyway.

SPEAKER_05 1:24:57

Put the lines down.

SPEAKER_00 1:24:59

Word. Gem number two. You you well, you must develop the ability to be disliked in order to free yourself from the prison of others' people's opinions.

SPEAKER_01 1:25:11

Oh, you think I'm so happy?

SPEAKER_00 1:25:12

Yeah, yeah. Yeah. I after that conversation, you were just like, you know what? Fuck it. Fuck you and a fuck you and a fucking you.

SPEAKER_05 1:25:20

That's always been my MO anyway. I can fuck what everybody thinks. Because it's not gonna stop me from being me.

SPEAKER_01 1:25:25

And I don't want to come across as an asshole because I absolutely give people the shirt off my goddamn face.

SPEAKER_00 1:25:33

If they don't reciprocate at least a hello, how you doing, how you been, then I can see the first I I would do the same thing.

SPEAKER_05 1:25:39

Like, if I don't especially if you reached out and they gave their ass majorly the kiss, never said anything. You know what I'm saying? And we used to be tight with this cousin. Yes.

SPEAKER_00 1:25:50

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_05 1:25:52

Like, I'm not, they ain't asked me for shit. Don't nobody ask me for nothing. I think people know that. Don't ask me for shit. Um, that's apparent. Yeah. No. Um, only certain people can ask me for something. Yeah. But but real tight with this cousin, and then it's like, what? You just disappeared.

SPEAKER_00 1:26:11

Yeah. That's crazy. All right. Last one. Um, and I I can't wait to hear what y'all have to say about this. Agree or disagree. I was told that men are funny because they're never tolerating half the shit they put women through. That's agree or disagree.

SPEAKER_05 1:26:35

I agree. I agree because the only reason why I agree is based off experience. Yeah, yeah. That's why I agree.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:41

Totally point. Because I don't think that it's everything. It's everybody.

SPEAKER_00 1:26:45

It doesn't encompass.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:46

Yeah, because I know some guys who absolutely put up with some of the bullshit that guys dish out to females. But the majority of them is like, hell nah, I'm not about to deal with that shit. Yeah, very true. I've seen so many guys who can like cheat and baby baby please it, and the female like keeps putting up with it, and the minute that the female cheats. Like no audacity, bitch.

SPEAKER_05 1:27:17

You wretch. Like, like, how dare you? You lied to me all this time. Bitch, you've been sleeping with Tanya.

SPEAKER_00 1:27:30

Well, damn. Damn. Damn. Well, that's that's that's my gems. We had fan mail. We had fan mail. I just so happened to check when I was uh on there the other day. Um, and it's a good fan mail.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:04

Check out my gravel pig. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:28:07

Should have me dying. Um let's get to the fan mail before I get to these picks.

SPEAKER_06 1:28:18

Yo, that laugh. I just read it.

SPEAKER_00 1:28:21

Oh, oh, wait. I have one more. Damn it. Anyway, I save this for the next episode. All right. So the fan mail.

SPEAKER_01 1:28:30

So our fan mail comes from our plus one who won um the contest uh when we were um seeking uh donations.

SPEAKER_00 1:28:38

Donations, yes.

SPEAKER_01 1:28:39

And our plus one Tanya H, who won the right to allow Nene and I to smash a piece in the face.

SPEAKER_00 1:28:50

That is uh we don't know that for sure. Uh uh, Miss H, can you please find out? Let us know who is getting the pie in the face.

SPEAKER_01 1:29:00

Because please. So the female says Booyaka, Booyaka, Booyaka. Praises to your name. You got the power. I won.

SPEAKER_00 1:29:11

Yo, we love you. Thank you. We appreciate the donations. Thank you, Free being our top donator. Um now we just need you to provide us with who is smashing a pie and whose face.

SPEAKER_05 1:29:24

A what?

SPEAKER_00 1:29:25

A PI. That's what I said. Let us know who is who's getting it and who is getting it. And then uh we're gonna film it and then put it on our thing. So that's that. Alright. Last but not least. Yeah. My picks for the week. Oh my god. I did so well. I did so well. We're coming into what? Week number. What is this? Week nine. Oh yeah, week nine. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:30:16

It's week nine already?

SPEAKER_00 1:30:17

Yeah, it's week nine already. Uh I love football season. It gets you right through the winter.

SPEAKER_01 1:30:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:30:25

Yeah it does. Yeah. Um I don't even have week eight. It's week eight. No, this is coming out. Oh. I feel you. So, um let me I I gotta find it now because it threw me off. Gotcha.

SPEAKER_03 1:30:55

So I still don't have it.

Chick-Fil-A, Cop Freebies, And Race

SPEAKER_00 1:31:02

Okay. All right. Got it. We're back. We are back. We're here. Alright, so I uh Chargers, Vikings, Thursday night football. I got well, I was hoping the Vikings will beat the Eagles. Uh they look alright, but Eagles started to find their identity now. They are him, him, and her now. Their identity. Them, they, and them. Uh there, they won, so whatever. So Vikings, uh, Chargers, I'm going Chargers. Uh, Falcons, Dolphins, I'm going Falcons. I think Dolphins is just look dismal. Jets and Bengals, I'm going Bengals. I don't think the Jets will win a game this year. Uh, Patriots, Browns, I'm going uh Patriots. Uh Drake May looks good. Um they got he got them looking good. Oh, game I'm looking for. Eagles versus the Giants again. Uh the Giants beat the Eagles last time. I would never pick the Eagles in anything, so I'm going for the Giants to beat them again at the Eagles place. I don't think that's going to happen. I feel like the Eagles is actually gonna pull this one off because they are looking like pure shit. They luck has run out. Uh it just came back for this last game. I don't I don't like it. I want the Giants to win because it moves us up. If we win, Giants is in last place in NFT East. They win, they make it, they win, it doesn't really do anything for them. But it does knock down the Eagles, so let's go, let's go Giants. That's the only time you're gonna hear me say, let's go Giants. Uh, Panthers, Bills. Ah, what do you think about your Bills right now, Nene? They high as fuck. The Panthers, the Panthers beat uh Dallas last week. Dallas won this week against uh Washington. Very, very nice.

SPEAKER_05 1:32:55

I'm gonna go with the Bills, though.

SPEAKER_00 1:32:57

Yeah, you know, I Bills look weird.

SPEAKER_05 1:33:01

Yeah, they don't look as strong as they did last year, but um I'm still gonna go with it.

SPEAKER_00 1:33:06

And Panthers is sneakily good. They're Panthers is they got on a four-game winning streak, so they're four and three. They're over 500.

SPEAKER_05 1:33:16

This is the last, they're not gonna win this game.

SPEAKER_00 1:33:17

Alright, so I think I'm gonna go to Bills too. Uh Ravens, Bears, uh Lamar Jackson is and the Ravens is one and five. One and five. They're going against the Bears. I'm gonna think I think they're gonna get their second win against the Bears. Uh, but Caleb Williams.

SPEAKER_05 1:33:34

He did horrible last. Especially for fantasy.

SPEAKER_00 1:33:39

Yeah, yeah. Niners, Texans. I got Niners, uh, Buccaneers, uh, Saints, I got the Bucks. Uh Dallas versus the Broncos. The Broncos, what a game with the Broncos who beat the uh the Giants in the fourth quarter. That was a fourth quarter. Like, I love the fact that the Giants lost in that fashion. I'm rooting for them this week, but oh, that shit was thank you, Broncos. Um Titans and the Colts. I'm going Colts. Uh Packers, Steelers, Packers, Steelers, Nene. Who you got?

SPEAKER_05 1:34:14

Steelers.

SPEAKER_00 1:34:15

Sean, who you got?

SPEAKER_05 1:34:17

The Packers.

SPEAKER_00 1:34:18

Packers, yeah. I'll figure it. Uh you're gonna lie to you. Okay, outta here. Chief Washington, I got the Chiefs. Uh that that is my picks. Get out of here.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:35

Get out of here.

SPEAKER_00 1:34:37

All right. Uh that it for me.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:41

I still gotta dress up like that lady and do that video.

SPEAKER_00 1:34:44

All right. So anything else? Anything else we're gonna add? Uh it's getting closer to the Halloween party. I can't wait. I hope it I hope the guys uh hope you guys uh show up and and enjoy a nice night uh with some costume. I'm gonna be dressed up. I I got me a costume. I'm gonna decide to dress up or stuff. You're gonna dress up as her to get out of here, old lady. No. I'm not dressing up as so that is gonna be Halloween night from 7 to 12 uh at the Wash um Washington. Where? Warehouse 635 in West Hartford. Um if you're showing up at the door is 635? Yeah, it's 635.

SPEAKER_06 1:35:29

It is?

SPEAKER_00 1:35:29

Yeah. That's that's technically their address, 635.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:33

I'll be transposing.

SPEAKER_00 1:35:34

So yeah, warehouse 635,$25 at the door. Uh shots all night. We got drinks all night. We got uh uh dirty lemonade, we have Who? What is it called?

SPEAKER_05 1:35:48

He said Dirty Lemonade.

SPEAKER_00 1:35:49

What is it called? It's a raggedy lemonade. Raggedy lemonade, rum punch, and a variety of shots. Um so if you're if you're interested, come on, come on. Come on down, come on down, the price is right.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:06

Get out of here.

SPEAKER_00 1:36:07

Uh other than that.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:08

Excuse me, can I please talk to you for a minute? Get out of here.

SPEAKER_00 1:36:11

Thank you for joining us and we'll talk to you next week.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:15

Yeah, you do tell. But um, I just wanted to know, do you know somebody's name?

SPEAKER_00 1:36:21

She walked off stage.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:22

Oh, definitely. I know his name. Monica got so ghetto right there. Later, y'all.

unknown 1:36:33

Later.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:49

Let's get a phone up, on the phone up, and just that story. We got your open eye floor. So you got the test for me. We don't need no eight or reacher, I'll reach you, and just that story, let's get a little while, so just despore me. Come on, everybody, get on line. Cause you know we got to get it wrong. Mary J is in the spot tonight, and I'ma make you feel alright. Come on, baby, just party with me. Let loose and set your body free. Leave your situations at the door. So when you step inside, jump on the floor. That's it, Frank. That's it from the phone.