Episode 19: Who likes FAKE Meat.

A work trip that wasn’t a vacation, a coworker caught red-handed, and a storm bearing down—this one starts with real life and only gets louder. We open with MLK reflections and a frank talk about protest today, then slide into an office saga where “it’s done” wasn’t done, the system logs told the truth, and documenting receipts kept us sane. That messy moment turns into a clean playbook: escalate with proof, write the hot email then delete it, and keep your peace intact.

From there, we take you shopping: crowded aisles, panicked carts, and why Five Below is not below five anymore. Practical storm tips meet side-eye economics, and the conversation bends toward food risk and reality—bacon’s carcinogen label, fast food’s salt math, and the weird new frontier of lab-grown meat. We unpack what’s hype, what’s helpful, and how to eat with both joy and judgment.

Music fans, you’ll want your headphones for this: Mary J. Blige passing on Umbrella and why the song needed Rihanna; Jodeci’s studio magic vs the vocals that didn’t age well; and a spicy vocals-only question—who steps out first between Kandi, Chilli, Ciara, and Michelle? Then it’s a quick pivot to a McDonald’s scam that double-charged customers, with real money hygiene tips you can use today. We close with a relationship pressure test: what does “let him lead” even mean, and why good leadership invites questions instead of shutting them down.

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Transcript

Cold Open, Intros, And Vibes

SPEAKER_05 0:01

Welcome to the table. The opinions of this podcast are for entertainment purposes only.

SPEAKER_03 0:06

Our thoughts and views are not to be taken personally. It is not that serious.

SPEAKER_16 0:11

We are trained professionals at being regular ass people. If you can't take what we serving, this is not the table for you. Reservation.

SPEAKER_05 1:56

Everybody's having a lot of people.

SPEAKER_11 2:35

If we made it back to store, you're a chip.

SPEAKER_05 2:48

Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. Welcome back to the table for three. Uh thank you for joining us.

SPEAKER_12 2:55

Welcome back.

SPEAKER_05 2:57

We've well thank you. Thank you for joining us again. Uh if uh if uh you're new to the show, I had a brave fart for a second. If you're new to the show, I am Mister.

SPEAKER_16 3:12

I am that woman, Nene, also known as Glendella Goberg.

SPEAKER_03 3:20

And it's your boy Gas Station Gilmore. Also known as Sean Anthony.

SPEAKER_16 3:29

Gas Station Gilmore.

SPEAKER_05 3:31

So y'all know when y'all see those numbers on the stalls. That's Gas Station Gilmore. Anyway, how y'all been? It's been a minute. Um Sean, you went and came back and went somewhere nice. How was that?

SPEAKER_03 3:46

Oh yeah, I went away for um a little work conference trip for um a few days down there. Cold wink wink.

SPEAKER_05 3:54

Cold wink wink. What ver. What a ver. That was cool. That's cool. Uh how was your week so far? Not bad. Um wait, you just got back from the thing or you been back for a while?

SPEAKER_03 4:10

Um been back for this last year.

SPEAKER_05 4:15

Wait, so it's so it'd been a full week for you. So yeah, how'd that go for you?

MLK Reflections And Protest Philosophy

SPEAKER_03 4:18

Four week now, yeah. Um, it wasn't bad. Just getting back into the groove. Groove things from the vacation. Oh, yeah. It was not a vacation.

SPEAKER_05 4:25

Oh, oh, it was a work thing.

SPEAKER_03 4:26

It was a work thing. It was celebrating Dr. Martin Luther. Luther King.

SPEAKER_05 4:30

Yes, yes, yes, yes. Let's give it up for Dr. Martin Luther King. Woo! Uh on. Dr. Martin Luther King, ladies and gentlemen. Uh, he deserved way more than yells and applause. He deserves your respect and praises and his family's blessings and stuff. He did a lot. Um, and I just that's just there should be more I should say here, but he probably thought cartwheels in his grave right now.

SPEAKER_16 4:58

Let's go back in history real quick. Well, we know what you did because you was there at that time. Um, would you have been a peaceful protester? Or been more so like Malcolm X? Like which which side would you have?

SPEAKER_05 5:16

Would I'd have been like Dr. Martin Luther King or Malcolm X? Malcolm X. Well, Malcolm X became peaceful later down the line. Um he he started off kind of militant uh at first, but then he went and visited I think uh uh well Mohammed, I think.

SPEAKER_16 5:38

And you mean over in Israel?

SPEAKER_05 5:41

Yeah, and then he came back kind of more because he was like kill them white devils at first, and then after that, it was just like peace and love. So, you know, I'm telling you, he was more militant in the beginning. I I think I'd have been I think we need a militant type of protesting now against these ice motherfuckers. Um because they need we need to we need to match force with force. I don't I think they killed somebody else in in in Minnesota, and uh it's just it's just ridiculous. It's they outnumber the guy, and he was a nurse or something like that. Like, come on.

SPEAKER_16 6:21

Yeah, they're doing the most great.

SPEAKER_05 6:22

Because he had a whistle blown in his ear, like dog, dog, you a bitch.

SPEAKER_03 6:27

They just find any reason. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 6:29

But yeah, uh these days and age, I would rather be a militant Malcolm X. You have to be the way it's going, honestly. Yeah. Um, how was your week, Nina?

SPEAKER_16 6:42

Um it was alright.

SPEAKER_05 6:44

I mean Well, this is an upgrade. Right? I'll take it all right over it was a week.

SPEAKER_16 6:53

Yeah, because it uh it wasn't really bad.

SPEAKER_05 6:56

Oh, I thought it was coming.

SPEAKER_16 6:57

Oh, wait, I do. I remember now. This chick finally got caught in a goddamn lie. Oh finally. Yeah, co-worker. My co-worker, because this bitch be lying all the time. Yeah. So we had like this big project to do, right? So we had at least one day to get because it was due the next day to get the project done. So, you know, busting ass. I did like a hundred of them shits.

SPEAKER_05 7:25

Were you working or just busting ass?

SPEAKER_16 7:28

Did it both?

SPEAKER_05 7:28

Okay.

SPEAKER_16 7:29

And um, so like my boss figuring, you know, oh, are you gonna stay? I'm like, no, I gotta drive the mass. So I gotta go. So um I stayed a couple minutes, literally just a couple minutes. And then I'm go to my co-worker. Well, I go to my boss first and I tell him, I'm gonna give it to the coworker and have her finish, because it's only 10 of them. Or whatever.

SPEAKER_05 7:55

After you did like what, f 500?

SPEAKER_02 7:57

A hundred. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_16 7:59

But in the midst of it, right, people don't understand shit, which drives me crazy because I specifically when I when I first got the project and started it, I noticed that it was duplicates. So it was four of us working on that project. And the initial person, she had that shit for a week, never said nothing, and that's how we ended up having to finish it.

SPEAKER_02 8:19

Wow.

SPEAKER_16 8:19

For her, or whatever. This not that this is a different coworker. And so I noticed it was duplicates. So I'm talking to her about it, and she goes, Oh yeah, I told your co-worker about it already. And I'm like, Oh, okay. So I left. I mean, I hung up the phone, went to my bosses, and I was like, Oh, yeah, she knows about it. I said, but I'm not telling this one anything. I said, Because she said she spoke to her, but she didn't have the galls to come tell us about it. So we ain't doing doing duplicates or whatever, because it was making more work unnecessary. So anyway.

SPEAKER_05 9:22

That was what you use for gunshot wounds, right? Galls.

SPEAKER_16 9:26

Shut up. I know. I did not say gauze. Be quiet.

SPEAKER_05 9:32

That's what it sounded like.

Workplace Liar Exposed And Management Woes

SPEAKER_16 9:33

Um, so end of the day, I was like, here, it's only like 10 of them left. Can you finish them because she leaves later than me? She's like, Oh yeah, yeah, no problem. Or whatever. So me and my boss leaving at the same time, and I look, I said, How about I bet you she's gonna end up not finishing them and probably leave them for me to finish them tomorrow morning because I come in early. I come in early to everybody. Next day comes, um, and I'm talking to my boss, like, all right, how we gonna um send this to who we gotta send it to? Whatever, because we we done, assumingly. I went to her and asked her, the coworker when she came in later. I said, Did you finish them? Yeah, they're all done. Yep, I did them last night. Okay. So we trying to package this shit up, whatever. Next thing you know, in our system, I see the duplicates being repopulated. So I'm like, who's still working on a thing? I thought everybody was finished. So my boss is like, I don't know. So we're calling the other people to find out. I did. So we're calling other people to find out. I said, Let me go ask her one more time or whatever. I said, I'm gonna take the list I gave her away. So I went and I was like, Oh, can I see that list so we can see whatever? So she gives me the list. I go in my boss's office, give it to her. Like, all right, I was like, Well, she said she finished it, so I don't know. We are scrambling trying to figure out, and as we're trying to figure out who's doing this, it's still populating new stuff, but it's already people that's been done. Right. So I'm like, whoa, who the fuck is doing this shit? This is stupid. So I go back in my co-worker's office. No, I'm lying. I walk by her office because I'm like, I don't know, you figure it out, you're the supervisor, whatever. But my co-worker calls me and she asks me, she's like, hey, um, do we have such and such's list to compare what was done or whatever? And I'm looking at her like, well, why? So I'm going to her office and I'm like, yeah, I gave it to you yesterday, like that whole pack. Hers is the first ones that's already checked off. But as I'm talking to her, me and my investigative, I always scan the room for shit. I look and she has like a different paper on top of the packet that we had initially had, trying to hide it, making it seem like she was doing something else, but she's stupid as she's talking. Paper lifted up, and I see the highlighted stuff, and I was like, It's her. So I was like, Yeah, you already have it, whatever. So I walk off, I go straight to my boss's office. I said, It's her. She's lying. She's in there processing. She tried to hide the paper from me or whatever. Because ain't nobody playing with you. We don't ask you a couple times, and you sitting here lying. You're holding up the process. We could be sending this stuff off. Now you're just making extra work. It's overriding the stuff that's already been done. Oh shit. That's what she's doing. Oh my god. So I'm like, This, this, like, this can't be real. You can't be that stupid. She that stupid. So my boss goes in, does like some shit, and then she comes to me, she said, This is how you see who did what. And she shows me, and who names pop up? The co-worker name.

SPEAKER_05 12:37

So that's the only way you have a great week if you're gonna be able to do that.

SPEAKER_16 12:40

Because I'm sick of doing people shit and having to do like extra work for no reason.

SPEAKER_03 12:45

She addressed.

SPEAKER_16 12:46

She was. She was addressed. But it it wasn't no big like address like it should have been. Because come on now.

SPEAKER_12 12:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 12:57

You lying now. You blatantly lied. So but I'm not the supervisor. Even though I keep doing supervisoral shit.

SPEAKER_05 13:09

Seems to be the thing that's going around.

SPEAKER_16 13:11

Man.

SPEAKER_05 13:14

Anywho. My week was great.

SPEAKER_16 13:17

What was it?

SPEAKER_05 13:19

No, but I love my job.

SPEAKER_03 13:22

That's a that's a change.

SPEAKER_05 13:24

I love my job.

SPEAKER_16 13:25

The tone of the I love my job is a little bit different than what he initially said, I love my job. He's like, I love my job.

SPEAKER_05 13:32

I think I think what's happening now is with this new management uh ordeal you can kind of tell the things that they don't know, and it's it's screaming at this point. And it's starting to affect a lot of people. And I, you know, I'm the type of person that I just I just want to go and do my job and get the fuck out of there. I don't really do much of the he say she say type shit. That's not really my thing. People talk, they like to talk. Alright, let them talk. Um if something started to happen to me, I'll kind of voice my opinion, but I will voice it to the people that matter that can possibly do something. And I did that this week. Because I I realized that I might have some I may have to go see somebody to talk to about like harboring anger management. And I was about to hit send on this email, I could understand why people say read it first, delete, and then think it through.

SPEAKER_16 14:52

Cause the shit that I was about to put in this Yes, I always get that first that first response out and then delete that shit over. Cause I'd be like that.

SPEAKER_05 15:01

Cause I got hit with an ultimatum or something that I took as an ultimatum. Honestly, I th uh it is an ultimatum, basically what she said in the email. And then it's like, I don't think that's my job to do. And it was just like, let me uh let me go ahead and forward this to my supervisor or somebody who can kind of see the record of what's going on, because it's it's evident that that person don't know what the fuck they doing. So other than that, it was a great week.

SPEAKER_16 15:32

That'd be the crazy thing though, like dealing with like why, why, how are these people getting hired? You know what I'm saying? Like the people you know how and another thing I meant to bring up too, real quick, is so we had this one position that has been vacant, vacant, vac vacant, oh my god, vacant for vacant. It was like a like a bakery had a cake topper on top. But um it was a banquet box. It it was Salisbury State. It nobody had that position or whatever. So we finally, and I'm and I remember saying this to my supervisor. Shut up. Not a power bottom. Yo, the excitement.

SPEAKER_05 16:25

What position was it?

SPEAKER_16 16:28

I already told him, I'm like, we don't need no disrespect to the older community, but in this line of work, we do not need elders. Not elders. Like older people, like you know what I'm saying? Elders. I'm just I'm just saying, like, see it up, like because you know, at that age, they're not picking up stuff, they're not, you know what I'm saying? They're probably looking at like, I gotta do all of that. I'm not about to do all of that. Well, you gotta do all of that. You got hired for that. So I found out that they hired an elder for this position that I'm like, you gotta be kidding me. You gotta be kidding me. Wow. Like, what are y'all doing? Like, we got liars.

SPEAKER_03 17:23

OB. Like, she said, we don't need another Gail Gertrude, or no, no, Linda.

SPEAKER_16 17:33

The crazy part about it, it is like that is the second male we have in this in our old man. It's an old man. Oh, maybe that might work. Because it's something more to him, but I don't I don't want to get canceled, so I can't sack. Oh my god. Oh no.

SPEAKER_03 17:50

Why what is it?

SPEAKER_16 17:51

Oh no. Let's just say they should have gave him something else. He could have been a secretary, he could have been, he shouldn't have been what he is right now.

SPEAKER_05 18:00

Phil Cupcakes.

SPEAKER_03 18:01

Uh oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 18:07

Well, it seems like it was a productive week. Uh this thing is mine happened on a Friday, and it's like, I ain't gonna go into the weekend like this, and we're just expecting storm. I don't want to. I I got all my thoughts. So I'll send that email and shut down. I was like, I'm done for the day. But anyway. How we looking for this storm, yo. Y'all waiting for y'all, y'all ready for this storm?

SPEAKER_03 18:30

I don't want nothing to do with it.

SPEAKER_05 18:31

Nor'easters, baby.

SPEAKER_16 18:33

All I know is a bitch better not have to go to work on like the next day.

SPEAKER_03 18:39

Yeah, they better shut this shit down. If they still make y'all go to work in 18 inches, but you well, you go to work on 18 inches.

SPEAKER_16 18:49

Um who the hell was going to work on 18 inches? I want to know. And I'm not talking about this dog. Yo, I'm sorry. I see 18 inches and I'm like, well, you gotta go. Yeah, I'm out of there. You ain't boxing it? Hell no.

SPEAKER_03 19:15

Y'all get on my fucking nerves. On every single one of them. Yo, yeah.

SPEAKER_14 19:20

Sounds like I did a split. They call me banana.

SPEAKER_05 19:27

Yeah, it's supposed to be crazy. Be safe this weekend or past weekend. Wait, I forgot that when we air, it's like the the store. Well, they might still be buried. Yes. Uh so be safe. I'm not buried. Be safe out there. Make sure y'all turn the generators on outside. That's a generator.

SPEAKER_03 19:46

Make sure y'all leave y'all um under the sink cabinet doors open too. I watched this so that the warm air can get under there so the front the pipes don't freeze. Oh, yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_05 19:58

Uh sounds like a homeowner.

Storm Prep, Grocery Chaos, And Price Rants

SPEAKER_16 20:00

I watched this um I watched this video my nephew had put up and is of like people going ham in the grocery stores. Like, why y'all go like it's not the end of the world?

SPEAKER_03 20:14

No, it was the end of the world yesterday because I was in the grocery store yesterday. Meet. But not because of the storm. Just because it's because I just needed to pick up some stuff. Me too. I literally went into the store. Cause I needed to get pepper. And I it was the most expensive pepper trip I have ever. Yeah, for real. Because now they hiked up all the prices. Well, it wasn't that. It's just I can't be let loose in a store by myself.

SPEAKER_05 20:37

I need a chaperone.

SPEAKER_16 20:38

Didn't I tell you not to go crazy?

SPEAKER_05 20:40

I did. If it was not an in-and-out trip, it's like I I'm in here. Might as well.

SPEAKER_16 20:44

It's never an in-and-out trip when Sean A goes in a grocery store. I mean. And my That's why I said grocery store because I knew he was gonna jump on that.

SPEAKER_03 20:54

And I ended up having to go to two different stores because it was something else that I needed that wasn't in the first store. Yeah, yeah. But the primary goal was pepper, and it was a$400 bottle of pepper. Because hey yo. What else you get?

SPEAKER_05 21:10

God damn.

SPEAKER_16 21:11

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_05 21:12

Bunch of shit you don't probably need.

SPEAKER_16 21:14

Oh, I didn't need it. Did you find the curtains?

SPEAKER_05 21:17

I found the curtain rod I need, yeah. In a grocery store?

SPEAKER_03 21:20

No, no, no.

SPEAKER_05 21:21

You said you went to two different stores. Oh, you went to a grocery store and then like save a lot or some shit.

SPEAKER_03 21:25

Not save a lot. You would have saved a lot.

SPEAKER_16 21:28

He wouldn't have spent$400.

SPEAKER_03 21:31

I would have bought the store.

SPEAKER_05 21:34

Not to make first of all. First of all, I ain't I didn't mean to try to check your pockets like that. That's not my intention. I've been to the cheapest fucking store. Like really. I'm sorry. I meant coach. I don't know. Like, goodwill. My bad. But nothing wrong with those stores.

SPEAKER_03 21:57

I just don't shop there. No, there's nothing wrong with those stores for the people that need those stores. Right, exactly. Which is why they exist.

SPEAKER_05 22:17

If you need that store for 50 cents, you could buy a whole meal for$1.25.

SPEAKER_03 22:29

You can at Dollar Tree.

SPEAKER_05 22:30

I know.

SPEAKER_12 22:32

Oh my God.

SPEAKER_05 22:33

I wonder if Cas be like mad when they go to like five below and everything's like$8 and up.

SPEAKER_03 22:39

So that bothered me with five below. Yeah. And I understand, like, we've gone through the era of dollar stores no longer really being a dollar store. But change your name. But five below. Yeah, for real. Because it ain't five below. But it's five below. Approximately five. Nothing in there should be above five. Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 23:02

Exactly. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 23:04

That don't make sense to me. Yeah.

SPEAKER_14 23:06

They about to change it. It's going to be like 25 and below.

SPEAKER_05 23:11

I went in to buy a charger for my son. It was like, it's five dollars. It's like, all right, let's see. This shit was like nine. I'm like, what the fuck? Yeah, crazy. The fuck? Anyway. Yeah, those stores are for you. Oh. Out there? Who needs it? Sir. Stop it. Don't do that. It's for me too.

SPEAKER_03 23:27

I'm not even gonna lie. Yeah, I was about to say. Uh-uh. Yeah, I like it. I mean, you could go to Five Below. You could get a book bag. You could get uh one of those pool uh toys, like the noodles. Uh-huh. You could get candy. You could get a lot of stuff. You could get little in tables.

SPEAKER_16 23:46

You could get little in tables.

SPEAKER_05 23:47

You want a pair of panties from Five Below?

SPEAKER_16 23:50

I got my little outdoor in tables for five dollars. They wasn't outdoor tables.

SPEAKER_05 23:54

Who's buying panties for five for five below? Yo, is it a pack? Or you just get one for five.

SPEAKER_16 24:03

Yo, who who that's a pretty good deal for some damn panties nowadays. What the fuck are you talking about? You spend five and you put them below.

SPEAKER_02 24:15

Below what?

SPEAKER_03 24:16

Yeah. Your foopa.

SPEAKER_02 24:19

Alright.

SPEAKER_16 24:20

Blow it. That's exactly where mine's gonna go.

SPEAKER_03 24:25

Put them on and they roll down. Yo. I use clothespins.

SPEAKER_16 24:34

How you trying to tuck your stomach in your goddamn pennies? That's crazy. Out here tucking shit. My husband, like, babe, what you doing? Tucking this goddamn Foopa in this goddamn pennies. Yo.

SPEAKER_05 24:47

You probably still got clothes like clothesline clips. Try to tuck them in with clothesline clips. Spongy cool. Remember clothes lines? Yes. Oh my god. I used to flip off them shits.

SPEAKER_03 24:57

What the fuck? Well, how?

SPEAKER_05 24:59

What kind of flip clients? So you dangle from your legs and you swing back and forth and flip.

SPEAKER_16 25:04

What kind of fucking clothes projects?

SPEAKER_03 25:07

That's the Bayesian clothesline. No, that was Bose Park. Fuck your head, still clothesline. Those was like chains.

SPEAKER_05 25:14

Yeah. And I didn't understand why they barred it. I'm so young, I was like, why the fuck they barred our windows? Keep your battery legs in.

SPEAKER_16 25:24

Not if you they badass.

SPEAKER_05 25:27

Damn.

SPEAKER_16 25:27

Clearly they didn't work for that. Swing my fucking clothesline. I'm like, the clothesline we had in our backyard was cloth.

SPEAKER_05 25:35

Cloth?

SPEAKER_16 25:36

It was like a um string.

SPEAKER_05 25:38

Oh no, we had the metal.

SPEAKER_03 25:40

She had a clothesline made out of Charmin.

SPEAKER_05 25:46

I had the double plot.

SPEAKER_16 25:54

Couldn't do no fucking somersault off that shit. We had the metal T, the T metal bar with those clothes lines going there.

SPEAKER_05 26:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 26:02

Yeah, you don't you don't remember those? No, because that's some hood shit.

SPEAKER_05 26:05

That's a project shit. You got the T metal bars with the clothesline going to the other T metal bars. I was too good for that. You lived You lived up the street. Better had a house. Oh shit. You lived on the other side of it. The good side of the Ave. The Ave is funny. Like No metal rides back there. The Ave is funny because like literally on one side is like the projects, and then it's like on the other side is like the first row of projects and then the nice houses back there. It's like the projects that wanted to stop like right there on your side.

SPEAKER_16 26:43

Well, you know that's how the little town lines do their shit. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 26:46

Yeah, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_16 26:47

Cause like if you really map it out, like Boomfeld, and it's like you Boomfield, you think it's like Hartford? Yeah, Boomfield.

SPEAKER_03 26:54

Boom.

SPEAKER_16 26:55

My lips got stuck.

SPEAKER_03 26:57

Boomies.

SPEAKER_16 26:58

Like when you you look, like some parts you'd be like, oh, this Hartford, but it's not. Right. Yeah. Like it's weird.

SPEAKER_05 27:04

And then you get in Hartford and shit just goes downhill until you get the Fox. And it was like, that's just the worst. Well, they they build it up over there. They try to gentrify gentrify that side of Hartford. That shit didn't work out.

SPEAKER_16 27:18

No, they might try to make it look nice. That shit didn't work out at all. But you still got Bucktown happening. And it's like maybe the five below.

SPEAKER_05 27:27

Yeah. They got six feet deep over there.

SPEAKER_14 27:32

Go home, but hey, yo.

SPEAKER_05 27:35

Anyway. What is going on in the world today?

Bacon, WHO, Fast Food Health, And Lab Meat

SPEAKER_03 27:40

Five below. Well, you know, for all you bacon lovers, swine. The World Health Organization has classified bacon as a group one carcinogen. I'm not fucking with you. Meaning that it is cancer causing. Um I had bacon this morning. I did too. Basically, that puts, you know, the processed meats in the same category as tobacco and asbestos based on the um evidence, the cancer evidence that they've done with the research. Um, they also, but they came out uh not too long ago about French fries, was the same thing. Um what it was one other thing. Having that tonight. I should be full of cancer. But I guess you know, you don't really have to listen to it if you don't want to, because um pumpkin tits just removed the United States out of the World Health Organization. So we no longer are part of them and we don't have to follow what they say. He won't kill everybody. Basically, because they're the ones who said, hey, you guys got a uh quarantine during COVID. So now we don't have to follow that. No, no, we have to do that. All because his ass wants to be outside.

SPEAKER_16 28:58

Bitch, you don't need to be outside, you need to be in a fucking home.

SPEAKER_05 29:02

So he's taking away all the information that possibly are is true information. Information we need to know regardless.

SPEAKER_03 29:10

He's taking it all away just so we he took that away by starting to dismantle the Department of Education. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_16 29:16

Yeah. Like and have this dumbass as the fucking um person over it, and she can't even answer simple questions.

SPEAKER_05 29:23

Oh, um Linda McMahon. Oh. I thought you meant like Melania who couldn't read.

SPEAKER_03 29:31

You see, they got like a little movie uh about her? About who? Melania. Melanie. It's called Melania.

SPEAKER_16 29:38

Melanie. That bitch name is Melanie.

SPEAKER_14 29:44

She's like, uh, it's because I love everybody loves me. I'm Melania.

SPEAKER_16 29:53

And you see the bullshit with her son, with their son?

SPEAKER_03 29:56

Baron.

SPEAKER_16 29:57

Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I saved a lady after you was just pronounced a woman hater. Now you saved somebody in a whole other country. It is. It's so crazy to me.

SPEAKER_03 30:08

It's a fucking TV show. Propaganda.

SPEAKER_16 30:12

Well The real housewives of the White House. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 30:18

Well, uh, seek information yourself, people. Let's not rely on anybody but yourself. Read. Go read a book.

SPEAKER_03 30:27

Yeah, and decide whether or not you're gonna keep eating bacon. At this point, everything's gonna kill you.

SPEAKER_16 30:30

So no, seriously, because even the organic shit.

SPEAKER_03 30:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 30:34

Even the organic shit they're coming out, like, is not even and then you have to check it because like the lettuce is fake. Mad shit is fake.

SPEAKER_05 30:44

I'm gonna eat me a nice bacon burger with fries tonight.

SPEAKER_03 30:47

You either gonna die being angry because you ain't eat what you wanted, or you're gonna die being happy because you ain't eating what you wanted. Either way. Because either way, we're dying. Yeah. No, seriously.

SPEAKER_16 30:57

Yeah. Seriously. And I'm gonna die with a happy milk smile. And speaking of that, too, I watched something. They was talking shit about uh McDonald's being like the most like the baddest place to eat because one, their fries is I can't remember exactly what it was, but the fries is bad. The the Big Mac has so much sodium in it, it's ridiculous.

SPEAKER_03 31:22

I thought we did, we talked about that one time, and they said it was Wendy's. Remember? I think all of them is horrible. All of them, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 31:30

I think all fast food that sells burgers and fries. I don't think the patties is real. I don't think anything that French fries, you can't produce that much fucking food that fast, and it's healthy. Ain't no way.

SPEAKER_16 31:45

Well, you know the burgers ain't real. We all know that.

SPEAKER_05 31:47

Although I just I just seen some shit on YouTube. Uh I probably like the best source right there, but um who was it? Who is this guy that gives away a bunch of money? Um uh Beast, Mr. Beast, I think that's his name. So he he he goes, he does his, you know how he does these little uh YouTube channel things, and he goes to uh let's look at future tech from less money to more money. But he he went to this place where they were processing uh chicken, right? So they made chicken without killing chicken. So they took the cells of a chicken egg and um put it in like a hyperbolic chamber or some shit like that. I don't uh clone in chicken. So they cloned yeah, they'll clone the cells and clone the stuff, and they'll put it in this uh big vat thing, um, and then create this chicken breast or some shit and cook it. And they had a real chicken and it's they seemingly it tastes the same. But I I thought that was real interesting. Like they're gonna start producing a lot of no, they already are.

SPEAKER_03 33:02

Yeah, and they just like but not only just chicken, like cow and like goat.

SPEAKER_16 33:07

But what's that what's that thing that they have, that machine that that just like the printer thing that makes whatever the fuck you want to make. Remember do you remember when they came out in the news talking about how they they were gonna allow that to be okay where they was gonna start making yeah, fake meat and shit? Yeah, fake meat. Like nobody wants fake meat. That's what meat, right? I think that's what we get, and you never pay attention to like how stuff cooks compared to how it I'm not I'm just moving past him.

SPEAKER_05 33:35

You have a bunch of fake meat in your um closet, don't you?

SPEAKER_16 33:38

No. That's Shownay.

SPEAKER_03 33:40

Oh, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh yeah, because your battery's not yeah, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_16 33:47

I've changed the batteries, it just doesn't work anymore.

SPEAKER_05 33:49

Oh shit. God damn.

SPEAKER_03 33:58

When you use it as a jackhammer, you know, that high speed gets it done.

SPEAKER_05 34:04

Um, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_03 34:07

And the husband don't know if you jack a spider having a seizure. What's wrong with you? Either way, he's not gonna ask you.

SPEAKER_14 34:16

That's okay.

SPEAKER_16 34:21

So no, what I was saying is you ever notice like how the meats don't technically taste the same as they used to growing up? Like, and then you notice how like hamburger, if you cook the hamburger, why is it so watery? You ever notice that?

SPEAKER_05 34:35

Wait, is it coming out of the freezer?

SPEAKER_16 34:37

No, when you when you're cooking it, it it produces so much liquid compared to what it used to.

SPEAKER_03 34:44

So what percentage are you getting?

SPEAKER_16 34:47

Yeah, like I get the lean.

SPEAKER_05 34:49

Like 90% lean, 10% lean.

SPEAKER_16 34:54

I get the that's the ground beef. Yeah, ground beef, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 34:58

Um do you get Angus? Do you get No?

SPEAKER_16 35:01

I just get the regular ground beef though. Yeah, what? Yeah, Angus, not Anus.

SPEAKER_03 35:09

But it's just so weird. I didn't know they sold that at five below. Angus! Five below. If you get five below, Angus.

SPEAKER_05 35:19

Well, it's below. Yo, that's yo, that's that is true.

SPEAKER_16 35:27

But just like it just, I remember cooking um some, I think I fried some chicken wings or something one time. And it was like, no. Don't frame me. It's just, you know how you could rip the chicken wing apart and so easily and stuff. It just was like, did you I glue this fucking chicken together? It was so weird. And I was like, this is gross.

SPEAKER_05 35:50

Like I ate it though, right? Who me? Yeah, yeah, I did. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_16 35:56

Pay my hard or money for that shit.

SPEAKER_03 35:58

She's got little eggs growing on her back.

SPEAKER_16 36:01

Right? I'm pregnant with a chicken, baby.

SPEAKER_03 36:03

Like, yeah, that's not gonna find the feather in the back. Like, what the fuck is this? Bacon, babe.

SPEAKER_14 36:12

Bacon I was about to say that.

SPEAKER_12 36:23

Like, the hell?

SPEAKER_05 36:25

Like, damn, baby, you wanted that bad?

SPEAKER_16 36:27

You went that buck. Yo. No, but like the meat just is yo, why we just made those moments?

SPEAKER_02 36:34

I don't know. Anyway.

SPEAKER_16 36:35

But the meat just is weird. It's just weird. What did you say?

SPEAKER_05 36:40

He heard cocking. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_16 36:46

How I hear cock.

SPEAKER_05 36:48

I don't know.

SPEAKER_16 36:49

So we got an audio.

SPEAKER_02 36:51

Oh lord.

SPEAKER_16 36:52

For you to pull up. We got an audio.

SPEAKER_02 36:57

What?

SPEAKER_16 36:57

I just wanted to move past that whole conversation. About um Mary saying an interview talking about how um she Mary J. Blige um passed up um the umbrella song. She turned it down.

SPEAKER_05 37:15

Good choice. Don't do that. I cannot hear it, Mary J. Blige singing umbrella, bro.

SPEAKER_03 37:21

So when I first I kept trying to listen to her voice and how it would sound singing umbrella. And I was like, No. No.

SPEAKER_12 37:41

Yeah, I'm bringing Don't do Mary like that.

SPEAKER_03 37:52

And can you see her in the video with the fucking book? This dancing and shit.

SPEAKER_16 37:56

Okay. With the boots in it. Should I had the high-ray boots?

SPEAKER_14 38:03

Yo.

SPEAKER_05 38:05

Yo. Oh my God. Hold on.

SPEAKER_10 38:09

So it was during the breakthrough album, and Be Without You was on fire, and the whole album was on fire. You hear that voice for eight. Umbrella. And Dream and Tricky came to me with Umbrella. All I heard was eight, eight, and I was like, yo, my fans is gonna bug out on me if they hit me to my eight eight eight. So I was like, I got a lot going on. I'm gonna pass. Then when I heard Rihanna do it, I was like, see, it was for Rihanna. It was for Rihanna. It was for Rihanna. It wasn't for me. I'm not afraid to pass on something that's not for me. It got away, it got away. But it wasn't for me in the first place.

SPEAKER_05 38:44

Yeah. I don't I don't hear Mary.

SPEAKER_16 38:48

That would have that would've that would have ruined her.

SPEAKER_05 38:50

I don't think it would have ruined her because she at that point she still had a a good uh they would have done that.

SPEAKER_16 38:56

Because uh even at that point, people was talking about how Mary couldn't sing anyway. No, no, they was.

SPEAKER_05 39:01

Mary's a couple albums in at this point before Umbrella. So she's still.

SPEAKER_16 39:06

They still from when she came out with that, was it her first album? Well, her first album was the 411?

SPEAKER_05 39:12

No. That was her first album.

SPEAKER_16 39:15

Yeah, what wasn't that one? What was that album was it that album? Where she did majority of her songs or covers. What album was that? Was it wasn't 411.

SPEAKER_05 39:25

That was her very first album, though.

unknown 39:28

What album was that?

SPEAKER_16 39:29

Maybe it was her second album. I can't really remember. But even when that album came out, it was like, mm-mm. And I'm like, y'all really think Mary can't sing? Back then I was shocked. I was like, I thought she sounded okay. Yeah. But now that you listen to her going forward, you'd be like, I get what they it's not that she can't sing. But Share My World.

unknown 39:48

No.

SPEAKER_16 39:49

Share My World was her song. Well, no.

SPEAKER_05 39:50

Is that the one where she got everything? My life. Was it was it my life?

SPEAKER_16 39:53

Yes, it was my life, my life, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 39:55

Once the 411 was the first one. And then my life.

SPEAKER_16 39:57

That's the second album, yeah. So when that album came out, everybody, like a lot of people, I won't say everybody, but I heard a lot of people always saying, like, Mary, don't Oh, yeah, definitely. You know, don't used to say that. Even Shakespeare was like, I don't like that. She sang my song. Umbrella. Umbrella. Shut up. Umbrella. Umbrella, umbrella, eh.

SPEAKER_05 40:27

No, I think she could have poured it out. You need to go home. I think she could have poured it out.

SPEAKER_03 40:30

That's why I I kept trying to like think, and I'm like, I think there's a way that she probably had to marry Fayette. I think she was right though with the her trying to do the eh. Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 40:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 40:42

It didn't fit her style. Yeah, that it didn't.

SPEAKER_05 40:45

Nah, not at that time, you know. I mean, coming off of Casey and B and then.

SPEAKER_03 40:49

Okay, so you just suspect.

SPEAKER_05 40:53

No, I'm just saying, like, she ain't want nobody in her umbrella.

SPEAKER_16 40:57

Speaking of Jodice, me and my husband was riding in the car, right? And we were to Jodice.

SPEAKER_05 41:05

Whose idea was that?

SPEAKER_16 41:07

And um Whose idea was it? Mine? No, it was his. Um so yeah, it was his. So um after that, I was driving in my car from work and a Joe Dice song came on that I never heard off of their album, their older album. Like back then or whatever. That shit was so fucking trash. Yeah. When I tell you them niggas can't sing.

SPEAKER_05 41:38

Listen.

SPEAKER_16 41:39

No, like dead ass. Them niggas can't sing.

Mary J Passed On Umbrella And Artist Fit

SPEAKER_05 41:42

I'm a I I was a dead, like I'm a fighting song, and I want you to play. I was a dead fan of Jodice when I was younger. I used to so their first album, I think, was one of their best albums. I think it their first album, I think, can be compared with one of the top albums in I it could be top fifty. Yeah. Well, all since then, uh because they're like one of the original kind of male groups back then. So it's like they got that first album they did was really good, and they sing really good on that fucking album. But that second album, it's like you can hear the drugs coming from the vocal cords. It it was so bad. It was so bad. Like, and it was like now my Jordy C fandom has come to an end. Because but that first album was fire. I still like that first album.

SPEAKER_03 42:37

You can hear the drugs.

SPEAKER_05 42:38

Yeah, you can hear you can you can hear the cocaine from their vocal cords.

SPEAKER_16 42:42

Oh my god. No, seriously, like like hold on.

SPEAKER_05 42:47

No.

SPEAKER_16 42:48

No, I need y'all to hear that fucking song that I heard. Because I was like, ain't no fucking way. Ain't no fucking way. We was we was we was riding hard for this shit. Oh, fun tonight. Yo, you can't go from here. It's off that album that you fucking like.

SPEAKER_05 43:07

Hold on. You can't go from here. Wait.

SPEAKER_16 43:13

Please play fun tonight though, please. I need y'all to hear that shit.

SPEAKER_01 43:24

I've been watching for so very long. This is my dad.

SPEAKER_16 43:33

This is all my lady. Cause you're the kind of lady with so much crap. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 43:49

Yo, they have very nasty. They had bangers. They had bang they had bangers on that first album, yo.

SPEAKER_03 43:55

Tell me nothing about Joe D C.

SPEAKER_05 43:57

They had bangers on that first album. And then you go to their second album. And you get you get shit like this.

SPEAKER_16 44:04

Like fun tonight. Is it fun tonight? It's on their second, second album. Yes, yes. This shit, this shit took me out. But I need you to play it till you hear them actually AC and them sing. But you gotta hear his verse.

SPEAKER_05 44:27

Cocaine.

SPEAKER_16 44:36

Yo, I was dying when I hit the drug.

SPEAKER_01 44:39

I just don't have fun to come on, girl. What I'm telling you, we can do a crazy thing if you want to. Girl, you so damn tight. I told you I lost it.

SPEAKER_03 44:55

I was like, what? You know what that sounded like to me? Somebody, Uncle. It sounded like that was their pre-songs. Like before before they like Did they first album? Yeah. And they're like, oh, you know what? We got all these uh other songs that we ain't never released. And they because even the production sounds just off. Yeah. Like the show, the after party.

SPEAKER_05 45:25

It was like an album filler. Yeah. The hotel. That album was horrible.

SPEAKER_16 45:31

Wow. When I heard that song, I said, Ain't no fucking way. That's why he was. That tainted my view of them because it like the other songs. I was like, okay. Come on.

SPEAKER_05 45:45

You can't go from that.

SPEAKER_16 45:47

Even the albums after that, though.

SPEAKER_03 45:49

Yeah, you can't tell me nothing about that.

SPEAKER_16 45:51

This right here.

SPEAKER_05 45:53

That's called a studio work, though.

SPEAKER_16 45:55

Woo!

SPEAKER_05 45:56

Studio work. Diddy knew what he was doing with this group.

SPEAKER_16 45:59

That's why they sound like shit the second album. They got Diddy.

unknown 46:05

What?

SPEAKER_16 46:07

You reminiscent?

SPEAKER_05 46:12

Come on. Come on.

SPEAKER_07 46:18

Never you crying.

SPEAKER_05 46:20

Yo. And then like it just went.

SPEAKER_16 46:24

And now you hear them and you're like, y'all sound like y'all sound like fun tonight.

SPEAKER_05 46:29

Is that you or is that JoJo?

SPEAKER_16 46:30

You hear me? Yes, sound like fun tonight.

SPEAKER_03 46:33

That's me, Devontae. But it um it's interesting going back to um like the the Mary thing is because that happens a lot in the um the music industry. Well, they pass up these songs. Yeah, because um Well chopping a writings around. Because Monica's song, um, Before You Walk Out of My Life, that was originally for Tony Braxton.

SPEAKER_05 46:53

That's yeah, people choose writers write songs and then I I've been in that situation where I wrote records where I I hear a particular artist on it and then they they shop it. But you gotta shop it to, as a writer, you gotta shop your records to you know who you think is gonna sound good on. Yeah. And then it most likely they probably pass because that's not on the the vibe they on or the wave they on on it, what the fans they think about all that stuff. So it would probably it will land in somebody's lap and become an instant hit that you wasn't even thinking about.

SPEAKER_16 47:31

That'd be interesting though to actually hear Tony's.

SPEAKER_03 47:33

I actually I can see where they were going with it, and I can probably I can hear Tony on it. And she didn't turn it down, because it was supposed to be for her um Secrets album, but she didn't turn it down. It was Clive Davis that was like, no, give it to Monica. Yeah. Because and that became Monica's second biggest hit. Yeah. But they was trying to push her up.

SPEAKER_05 47:51

Um Well, you're talking about Clive Davis, uh the Tony Braxton thing.

SPEAKER_03 47:55

Yeah. Oh her just coming with Monica just coming out. They was trying to really um push her up.

SPEAKER_05 48:02

Yeah, I mean, thank God for some of that stuff, like the wrong song with the wrong artist might cripple their career. Yeah. You know what I mean? So as you see with Jordice.

SPEAKER_16 48:12

So that was a fucking demo tape.

SPEAKER_05 48:17

That's yuck. The only good song on that record was Freaking You.

SPEAKER_16 48:21

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 48:21

I wanna freak you.

SPEAKER_16 48:23

And that probably was just freshly wrote by like Diddy or somebody.

SPEAKER_05 48:29

It's not like a Diddy would write that shit. Looking at that fucking documentary. Yo. Like Diddy was in there like, yo, this right here.

SPEAKER_16 48:39

But the way you see it, I don't think Diddy write wrote shit.

SPEAKER_05 48:42

No, he don't write shit.

SPEAKER_16 48:43

Yeah, about to say.

SPEAKER_03 48:43

All he wrote was take that, take that.

SPEAKER_05 48:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 48:46

Didn't Jada write most of his shit?

SPEAKER_05 48:48

And punches.

SPEAKER_16 48:49

So hey. Nah, we got it.

Jodeci’s Highs, Lows, And Studio Magic

SPEAKER_03 48:55

He punched them while they was doing lines. Boom! That's horrible. That's not funny. There are victims out there. That's why JoJo sounds like you're weird, you know. So we bring it back to Fast Fool. Um, there was a 19-year-old, uh McDonald's employee in Texas, Giovanni Blount, who was taken into custody by the Springfield Police Department. Um Blount? Yes. And they issued a public alert to residents who have visited um that McDonald's recently to check their credit card statements for any suspicious activity because they found out that the young man was processing like the legitimate payments from the customers when they were buying their food. And then he was using a personal payment device to tap their credit cards a second time, charging an additional twenty ten to twenty dollars per transaction. Um, and he was transferring those funds into another account of his.

SPEAKER_16 50:01

How nobody got that where it sets because I know my credit card or my card, it alerts me automatically when a payment is when you use it. Yeah, when you use it, it goes up.

SPEAKER_03 50:11

Everybody don't set that up.

SPEAKER_05 50:12

If you're that damn smart, get a job and get paid real money. Well, or if you're making millions of dollars off of that, be a little bit smarter. Don't get caught. Oh shit. Oh, oh my god. White people doing white things. Oh my god. I mean, he he oh it's that's y'all. That is y'all.

SPEAKER_16 50:44

He was taking money and fries.

SPEAKER_05 50:45

Oh my god. Yo, not money and fries.

SPEAKER_12 50:49

Bro.

SPEAKER_05 50:51

Mm-mm. Mm-mm. Yeah, that's yeah.

SPEAKER_12 50:59

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_05 51:00

You would I wouldn't I wouldn't peg them as like scammers like that. Really? Like, like not like that. You know what I mean? Not out of McDonald's. I've I figured they'd be like out of blue-collar job trying to take embezzle.

SPEAKER_03 51:14

Well, they do that too, but yeah I think he ain't reached that far yet. Yeah, he was working his way up. And I also think that it's like if you think about it, McDonald's, the way that the prices of McDonald's have gone up. Yeah. It's not going to be a huge alert for most people. Right. Because they see another$10,$15 from McDonald's on a credit card bill, because not many people are looking itemized at their credit card bill. Yeah, or get that alert. And so it's like, oh, okay,$15 at McDonald's. Oh, yeah, I did go to McDonald's last night. And they're not getting receipts. No, it's not really right.

SPEAKER_05 51:52

So I don't know how they not. I yo, I check every fucking well, that's what I do. I just check every fucking dollar that I spend to make sure, you know, I'm not getting ripped off.

SPEAKER_16 52:02

So Yeah, I always look too. I don't ask for a receipt, but I cause I know I'm gonna get the alert. So if another thing comes in, I'll be like, mm-hmm, wait a minute. I'll bustle you, you turn real fast. Don't play on me. Don't play me.

SPEAKER_05 52:17

Do you itemize your any like your statements? Do you go like balance your checkbook? Do anybody do that anymore? Like balance checkbooks and making sure. I don't use checks. No, no. It's not like check, it's not like a checkbook check. That's old school saying.

SPEAKER_16 52:35

If something is off, yeah, I'll go through it. I'll be like, well, wait a minute. Why is this this?

SPEAKER_05 52:38

I didn't spend that. Like, what's the yo I it's a monthly thing. Every time. Are you okay with it? Did you just drool yourself?

SPEAKER_16 52:46

That's because it's a certain bank that I used to have. And twice I got hit with fraud charges. Oh, really? Somebody spent like$130 something dollars at a gas station in fucking Wisconsin.

SPEAKER_13 52:58

Wisconsin.

SPEAKER_16 52:59

And then um another time it was actually a store in the mall. Somebody that I know I did shop there, but later somebody reached charge. Yeah. So like a worker there. And so again, I had to get my fucking money back, file a fucking report and all that shit. And I was like, yeah, y'all, that bank, I was like, I'm on seven jobs, so I left. Yeah. Because what why y'all always getting hacked? Like, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_05 53:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 53:27

These goddamn employees. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 53:29

Inside jobs, man. They know what they fuck they're doing.

SPEAKER_16 53:33

Freaking employees. I know, it's crazy. So yeah. This so far I haven't date. But the bank I have has so many fucking um security measures. Yes, like it'd be pissing me off sometimes. And I'll be like, you know, it's good. But sometimes it's like, bitch, you locking me out. I can do my own shit.

SPEAKER_03 53:51

But I mean, it's worth it. Yeah. I guess though, like for something like that for him, he probably was real strategic with it though. Yeah. On who he did it. Right. Because I don't believe he was doing it to everybody. Yeah, he was probably doing it on over the five five below. Somebody who rolled up in a bins or a or a screen for five below. And they like, oh, they ain't checking their stuff. They just wiping their car. Not just staying from shut up. Five above. Shut up. Five above.

SPEAKER_16 54:34

So we do have another audio, and it's about this woman who's talking about she went she never wanted to date a man who had a sister, um. Or a living mother. Yeah, or a living mother. And I just thought that was crazy.

SPEAKER_05 54:51

She never had a what?

SPEAKER_16 54:53

She never wanted a man who has a sister or a living mother.

SPEAKER_03 54:57

Oh, a living mother.

SPEAKER_16 54:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 54:59

Like your mama gotta be dead.

SPEAKER_16 55:00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 55:01

Or don't have no sisters. Like she don't want a man that got sisters or a mother that's alive.

SPEAKER_06 55:08

Son's girlfriend. When she loves him against the way that she's like, Oh, let me run about a girlfriend. I'm your brother's girlfriend. I'm your son's girlfriend. When she loves him against the way that you go see the lady. That's all you're doing right now. It's like I don't like the fact that somebody else cares about your well-being more than me. The idea of them to judge me.

SPEAKER_13 55:24

I'm not coming second to no other girlfriend. You're gonna be a lonely bitch. I can't, I can't rely on my man because at any given day he gotta do something for six other. Nah, I'm out of here. You lost me. Marry a mother. Can't have no kids.

SPEAKER_09 55:41

I I don't want a man with kids. I don't want a man that that comes with drama. I don't want uh a man with a baby mom. I don't want it attached to me. I wanna date someone and have them be in love with me and me only.

SPEAKER_16 55:53

I kind of feel her because my delusion I started that backwards, but so I'm gonna speak on the because I was that person. Not the mother part. The I can't date a man with kids. And I didn't, which is a uh what's the word? Uh being a hypocrite because I came with kids. But I I know me. And I know I couldn't be in that situation. So I never if you had kids, it wasn't gonna work for me.

SPEAKER_03 56:24

So I kind of see that differently though. Like I understand when when people are like, oh, I don't wanna be in a relationship or date somebody with kids. Kids bring a whole nother level of stuff to a uh relationship. So I get that. But saying that you don't want to be with someone who has fucking siblings, like, or their mother has to be dead because she wanna be the only woman in his life that gets attention. Yeah, that's weird. I think that's a little weird. That's selfish too. Yeah, very much so. That's wild. Like, you upset that his mother called and was like, hey, can you come by the house and help me move my washing machine? Because you might want to watch a TV show with him. Like, okay.

SPEAKER_16 57:05

Go with him to move the fucking wash machine. Like, I just think that's wild kind of thinking.

SPEAKER_03 57:11

Yeah, that's stupid. She's gonna forever be lonely, flicking her bean and going to sleep. I'm gonna marry a mother. Like, and I get it. There are some mama's boys who've been.

SPEAKER_05 57:22

She shouldn't be begging nobody to be like But it wasn't her, it was the person that called in and she agreed with her.

SPEAKER_16 57:28

Oh, well, still, how about your?

SPEAKER_03 57:30

She went on her team too about either yourself too.

SPEAKER_05 57:33

Them both of them bitches can can go fuck, you know what I mean? Like, go sit down somewhere.

SPEAKER_03 57:38

There are really over pretentious fucking mother-in-laws and sisters, yeah. And mama's boys that like put their mother above every relationship and everybody in the world. Yeah. Sometimes that gets a little creepy. That's a red flag to me, man. A lot of times a lot of these mothers get too invested in their sons and think that they somehow. Yeah, that's man.

SPEAKER_16 57:58

That's creepy.

SPEAKER_05 57:59

That right there is very, very creepy. Yeah, I understand. So so here's the thing. So what if he she does find the guy, right? And he ha his mother happens to be alive. The red flag to me is like now if my mama ends up dead, bitch. I'm I'm I'm pointing you out. Because I know your intentions now. Like, like my mama was healthy.

SPEAKER_16 58:28

You know what I mean? She's like, ah, babe, I'm so sorry about your mom, but now I have you tomorrow.

SPEAKER_05 58:34

Yeah, nah, yeah, that's some that's some creepy ass shit, bitch.

SPEAKER_03 58:36

Don't say that shit. That's weird behavior. The thing I think is interesting with that though is so you're okay if he has brothers and a father.

SPEAKER_05 58:44

Because she wants to probably sleep with them too.

SPEAKER_16 58:46

No, because she wants her she wants her block knocked off. That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_03 58:49

Because I'm just saying, like the issue is his brothers or his father could require his attention too, or need certain things that would take him away from you, but you're okay with she got options at that point.

SPEAKER_16 59:00

No, I don't think it's that. I think it's women for me personally, in my opinion, that's what I was about to say. I feel like she doesn't get along with women, period. So that's that's her view of everything. Like you have problems.

SPEAKER_05 59:12

That's just probably the way she was raised, like maybe.

SPEAKER_03 59:16

She ain't no daddy with being combative with other women is like she's the only child and she don't like to share. Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 59:23

But if the yeah, but it's like if this is something your guy is willing to help out his sister, help out his mother. I thought that would be a good trait. That's what I was about to say. Like, that's that means that he's gonna want to like do the same for you. Like, why wouldn't you want somebody like that? That's crazy.

SPEAKER_05 59:41

Yeah, it's the times we in. They they they they want those uh broken men. No, seriously. It's like, you know what I mean, that that beats on you and don't know how to balance a checkbook because they never had that upbringing from a woman. They kind of tell them no, like, hey, this is how you treat a woman.

SPEAKER_16 59:59

So when you can the their role model is the person that's getting beat the shit out of the room.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:05

So when you start getting your block knocked off, bitch, don't s start crying like I can't find a man.

SPEAKER_16 1:00:09

Yeah, because Sometimes people are a product of their environment.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 1:00:13

Um, and don't know no better.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:16

Yeah, she what's her environment?

SPEAKER_16 1:00:18

I don't know what her environment.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:21

She was just she was doing cartwheels on them clothes lines on Near Fabaloo. Outside of them barred windows.

SPEAKER_16 1:00:28

She just wasn't getting the attention or whatever she needed growing up as a kid. So now she's trying to seek that from she probably didn't have a daddy. She probably really didn't have a father. And she's trying to seek that from the guy. And that's like you can't. That's not the same.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:41

Whatever your backstory is. It's our go get therapy.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:45

Because that's crazy. Because I can see like sometimes it can't get excessive though.

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SPEAKER_05 1:00:48

Yeah, yeah. I can see I can see what she's saying.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:51

If it's excessive, then that's when you need to have a conversation. Exactly. Like it's like, okay, we got a date night plan, we're about to go out, and then your mother calls talking about, oh, can you take me to the store? And you drop the date night to go take your mama to the store, like she's still not gonna be there tomorrow.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:03

Yeah, but you but to to go in it, be like your mama needs to be dead for a while.

SPEAKER_12 1:01:08

Right.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:08

Yeah, that's crazy. Like if your mama's alive, then I you know, let's have a conversation. I think she's butt butting in our relationship a little bit too much. And if your mama's boy, then this ain't you know, it ain't gonna work. Your mama live out of state interfering like that.

SPEAKER_16 1:01:22

Like, but speaking of mothers, like put it in this situation because let's just say, like, so one day my mother Oh Lord My mother called me and was like at work early to solidify this, right? So she goes, Hey, um, I need a ride. She was like, Your daughter can't do it because she has an appointment. Can you bring me to choir rehearsal? So I was like, alright. Um, no, she she was, I was like, Alright, well, I'm gonna get out of work, I'm gonna come pick you up and bring you to my house and wait, because she ain't had to be there till later. And I was like, Because in my mind, I'm just ready to go home. So then my son calls, he he has practice, so I had to pick him up. So I'm like, alright, bet. Grab him, go grab my mom, head back to the house. Go get to her, and and she gets in the car and she's like, I don't even really feel like going to cry rehearsal. So I stopped my car, still in her driveway, and I looked over at her and I said, Well, if you don't want to go to cry rehearsal, then you go back in the house, and I would have drove over here for no reason. Like, at this point, it don't matter. You go in-house. Like, you ain't gotta go. No, no, I gotta go. And I'm like, You sure? As I'm slowly backing out of the driveway, because I know my mother. Are you sure?

SPEAKER_03 1:02:54

Speak now or forever hold your peace.

SPEAKER_16 1:02:55

Forever hold your peace, because after this, it is gonna go downhill. So she's like, no, no, no, I gotta go. I don't want to, but I I definitely I have to go. Okay. Okay, ma'am. Get to my house. So now me and my husband is watching TV and having a delicious meal. And it's getting close to the time that my mom has to get dropped off. Now, mind you, the church is up the street for me, so it's not like it's far. Um, she goes, I was like, oh, so you ready? She goes, Yeah, I'm not gonna go to the choir rehearsal. Excuse me? Excuse me, ma'am.

SPEAKER_05 1:03:43

That's why your husband, your husband was like, that's why she should be dead. That's how she sounded like. That's what the chick sound like.

SPEAKER_16 1:03:53

Like, I looked at my mother and I was like, you gotta be kidding me.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:00

I was like, No, so she really didn't really didn't go.

SPEAKER_16 1:04:03

Did you have to bring her home? Hell no. I told her I wasn't bringing her home. My father came and picked her.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:09

Yeah, because you she done wasted your time, your life. In my gas. Yeah. Like, come on. And she knew from the very beginning.

SPEAKER_16 1:04:18

She didn't want to go. And I knew she ain't want to go.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:22

I would have ripped her wig off.

SPEAKER_16 1:04:25

She had a wig on that day.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:27

You know, she you know damn well she had a wig on that day.

SPEAKER_16 1:04:30

She didn't. She had a hat on. She had a wig on. Um, I should have ripped her hat off.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:34

But um You'd have found Kung Fu Kenny under there.

SPEAKER_16 1:04:37

You know what?

SPEAKER_03 1:04:38

Nah.

SPEAKER_16 1:04:42

I would have found a nub. Stop. Don't do your mother. But I looked at her, I said, don't ask me for it. I said, going forward, this is not, I'm not, I'm not doing it. I'm telling you, no.

SPEAKER_05 1:04:53

She caught next week, you doing it.

SPEAKER_16 1:04:54

No, I'm not. I'm not answering the phone. I'm so serious. Like, I'm on this whole kick of no, I'm not, I don't give a shit.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:01

Think of all the times growing up your mother went out the way for you. She's filthy.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:09

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, she is. She is deep in thought.

SPEAKER_16 1:05:12

Like I'll take never happened for 300. And like my God.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:23

So we gotta who you got.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:25

Yeah, all right.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:26

So I want you guys to think about this. Like, don't just jump at an answer. Really, really think about this and I got a bad bunny. Oh my god, so based on vocals alone.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:41

Vocals alone, okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:43

Who should excuse themselves from the group?

SPEAKER_16 1:05:47

I'm gonna how?

SPEAKER_03 1:05:49

You have Candy Burris from Escape, you have Chili from TLC, you have Sierra, and you have Michelle from Destiny's Child, who should excuse themselves based on vocals alone, and think about it very carefully. Think of everything you've heard them sing. And then give me your hands. Who was the third one? Candy. You got Candy, Chili, Sierra, and Michelle. Candy. For me, Candy could go home.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:37

I wanna say Sierra, but I she could sing. She could dance better than she could sing, but she can sing. I don't really I never really heard Candice. I mean Candy, but if she comes from the if she she comes from a group called Escape with Tiny with Tiny and M, she I I she has to go. I'll take Candy. I take Candy off of it.

SPEAKER_16 1:07:05

When you're out in the club, don't think I'm not.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:08

That's her? That's Candy. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:10

You can go. So because I like Michelle. First, I want to say I'm mad that they put Michelle on the side. I know. Michelle shouldn't even beat me. She was some respectful Michelle name. Thank you. And she's a gospel singer.

SPEAKER_14 1:07:21

Thank you.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:22

She sings.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:22

Yeah, she can sing.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:23

You might not like her tone or what have you, but she can sing.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:26

And she matched well to be on in fucking uh Destiny's Ride.

SPEAKER_16 1:07:29

Thank you. Because can you hear Candy in Destiny's Child? Absolutely not.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:33

So that part. Even though she wrote for Destiny's Child. She's a writer. She could write. Oh, hell yeah. She could write. I can take her writing over her singing, anyway.

SPEAKER_16 1:07:41

Shut the fuck up.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:43

So I was torn. I was torn. And I was torn because between Chili and Sierra? Candy.

unknown 1:07:53

Oh.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:54

Probably Candy and Sierra. I mean Candy and Chili.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:58

Candy has her moments. And she can hit some high ass moments. She can hit some notes. Yeah. But a lot of times she just be like, out there. Mm-hmm. Sierra, you know, I've always been a Sierra. I don't know why you came out as a singer. You should have been a dancer.

SPEAKER_16 1:08:13

She's not a singer. She can hold a note. She can hold a note. She's not a singer singer.

SPEAKER_03 1:08:18

But the reason I was also torn is because has anyone ever heard Chili just sing a song?

SPEAKER_16 1:08:24

No. And that and I agree with you because I thought about that, but the only reason why I kept her is because, again, for me, it's the tone of Chili compared to candy. So that's why I say candy gotta go.

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SPEAKER_05 1:08:38

The reason why I kept Chili is because I I you I do hear her sing a lot. Because since since uh Left Eye, since Left Eye, they do live shows without her. So she she sings. So I I seen a documentary on her them doing a tour and shit like that. She can sing. No, she can sing. No, I seen her sing. I've heard her sing. I I would you heard her do a solo. Not a solo, because she's not a solo act.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:04

She's harmonizing with somebody else.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:07

So is Michelle. No. No. So Sierra.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:14

You've heard Sierra sing solo, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:16

I haven't.

SPEAKER_16 1:09:17

Her songs are so those studio studio songs.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:20

She do what she do her own backgrounds too. I don't think she does her background.

SPEAKER_16 1:09:24

I've watched her do her live.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:29

I've never seen Chili Live. Oh, yeah. It's a documentary that's out. It's really good. How they they tore in what's the name? A T-Boz has this thing she goes to doctors for. It's good. But she sings.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:40

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:09:41

So yeah, but she she holds she holds it. I remember that documentary. She holds it down. So I I was basing it off of that.

SPEAKER_16 1:09:47

And I I I really hear But to actually hear her go in depth and singing like outly or performance. Yeah, you have it. Yeah, we had nobody's heard that. Yeah. We've heard candy sound like shit, sound okay, and sound good.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:03

Right. Oh, so yeah, okay. I I get what y'all saying. But you still going with are you going with Chili? Or are you going with candy?

SPEAKER_03 1:10:13

I struggled and I I I keep falling at Sierra. Because that's what I say. Sure do not like Sierra. That's what I say. When she did that damn song, what is it called? When she was like, and die. And she's by that fucking tree. That shit drove me crazy. That they had her singing. Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 1:10:41

I knew exactly what socking is.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:43

Like Sierra is great at talking. Talking. Like in her songs, when she's doing more of the type of like rapping type of singing, she's fine. Because she has a soft voice. But when she's trying to sing. Yeah. And that's why I had to put Chili above her because I gotta find it. Yes, please play that song. It just bobs. What song? What song was it? What is it called? Is it called um is it called and I or something like that?

SPEAKER_16 1:11:16

You know I don't know titles to shit. I just know the time I hear it.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:49

And they using a lot of um shit to help her right now.

SPEAKER_07 1:11:58

I don't hear the engineering.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:04

I don't hear any like vocal manipulation as far as like oh Jesus.

SPEAKER_16 1:12:20

Some off notes in there. Tried to mask with reverb.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:24

They did, they did. That was like for me. Well, Sierra for me was when Rihanna first came out. Yeah. Chris Brown for me. Yeah. Yeah. And so that's why I was like, I gotta put Chili above her. Because I I I've heard Chili's voice.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:44

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:45

I've never heard Chili just out here just belting for burgers. Yeah. But I know she can keep a note. And not that Sierra can't keep a note, but she's a way better dancer.

SPEAKER_16 1:12:57

I just feel like that song just wasn't for her.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:59

And because I've heard Candy sing, I mean, I've had Candy's albums. So like I've I've heard Candy sing and heard her sing live. And on some of her escape songs, like she sings and hits her notes. So that's why I was like, I can't throw her out in the trash completely. Was she the person holding Escape Together? Vocal-wise? Cause wasn't Tiny the lead? No. It was um, so they always would make Candy The lead. And that was always like the fight. She was the one that hit the high notes all the time.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:31

Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:32

Um, but what was her name? Tasha Latasha. Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 1:13:35

Latasha and her sister.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:37

They have the better voices out of the out of the four. I don't know why. What? Nope. You about to say something about Tiny?

SPEAKER_16 1:13:45

I wasn't. Mm-mm. No. I always respected Tiny because she had a big nose. And I was like, yes, the big big nose bitch to represent. Who's that? That's Candy.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:59

Who's in the background?

SPEAKER_16 1:14:01

That's Natasha. And I'm that kind of girl.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:06

Nah, bro. I can't stand this song.

SPEAKER_16 1:14:10

I fucking love this song. I hated it. I love this song. I hated this song.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:17

I hated it. I hated this song. Because I didn't think any of them could sing.

SPEAKER_12 1:14:21

What?

SPEAKER_05 1:14:22

I didn't think when I first heard this, I was like, yo, why the fuck?

SPEAKER_13 1:14:28

What? You wild. Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 1:14:32

Yeah. Uh uh. Every man wants a woman. Is that still candy? Yeah. Where's that? Where's Tiny? If you want Tiny, she's on um.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:48

Nah. I couldn't stand that song.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:51

Is she on a slow one, right?

SPEAKER_16 1:14:52

Yeah. Is it the um on a slow lover song? Does she sing that one first?

SPEAKER_03 1:14:58

I think it is. My little secret?

SPEAKER_16 1:15:00

Yes. I think it's that one.

SPEAKER_03 1:15:03

That's where Candy gets the note.

SPEAKER_16 1:15:05

Yeah, that high note.

unknown 1:15:07

She'll never kiss the first one.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:09

Is that tiny?

SPEAKER_16 1:15:10

No, it's the verse. She sings the first verse. She sings the first verse. She sings the first verse.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:20

Cool.

SPEAKER_16 1:15:21

Candy. That's her right there. I meant tiny.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:25

Tiny T is the first verse?

SPEAKER_16 1:15:26

Yeah, I think it's the first verse.

SPEAKER_15 1:15:29

Oh my god. See, baby, you're my little secret. Secret. That tiny right here, no second.

SPEAKER_16 1:15:44

Oh no, that's candy. It wasn't the second verse. She in there though.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:52

You know, I gotta song that.

SPEAKER_16 1:15:58

I'm at tiny scene. But you gotta know how.

SPEAKER_03 1:16:00

That's her. She can't know when this when she hits the note.

SPEAKER_07 1:16:04

It was you and your house that I was creeping through all the time. But promise still do wear.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:12

Nah, bro. Nah, bro. Nah, bro.

SPEAKER_16 1:16:18

You ain't even let her sing.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:19

Nah, bro.

SPEAKER_16 1:16:20

You know what's so funny? Who sounds just like her when she sang? Who? Her little daughter.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:24

Yes!

SPEAKER_16 1:16:26

Little daughter said just like her. Yes, little tip.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:30

Speaking of that family, T.I. cut his braids and came out with a fire ass fucking.

SPEAKER_16 1:16:36

I didn't even hear it yet. I heard snippets, but I didn't hear it. I saw the little the promo they did with him in the barber seat. Oh, yeah. Getting his hair cut.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:46

That should that shit fire.

SPEAKER_03 1:16:48

I was like, oh T.I. dad.

SPEAKER_16 1:16:51

Yep. Somebody don't. All that tip. Somebody don't got up under his skin.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:56

Yo. I'm not doing this with you.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:02

I I here it is.

SPEAKER_04 1:17:07

I think this is it.

SPEAKER_08 1:17:21

Run it to the check-of-flayer. Run it through the real life. When I get me gunning, we'll pull over till I'm getting it right. Ridin' to the sun right. Can I no bitch back? Ain't no get no bitch, riding with me, bitch. Real dope, boy, in the chip. Niggas on my dick, make me roll for your bit. Yeah, let them know. I don't talk, rust a loud little box. Uh-huh. Solitaire's all I do is big rocks. I keep the dealer rock. All the way to hit you. On the throne, bitch ain't one I'm on. She can kick rot, let her know.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:09

Oh yeah. That's TI for you. That's fire right there. I think that's Pharrell on the beat. Yo, that shit fire.

SPEAKER_16 1:18:17

I like that beat.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:18

Yeah, Pharrell. Pharrell did his thing on that shit. That's fire, bro. That nigga cut his head, his hair, and was like, I'm back type shit.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:27

Like people was like, when he did that and then did drop the song, people was like, Jay-Z, you got five minutes to cut your fucking hair. Yo, for real. And come out with something. Yo, for real.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:39

That'd be some shit. Well, congratulations to them. Uh, yeah. Uh I should have gone with my first one, but Candy can leave. You know. That whole escape can leave. Oh. Do that.

SPEAKER_12 1:18:54

They actually.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:55

They have four members, right? Yeah. So outside of Candy and X uh Tiny. Tiny, who was the other two?

SPEAKER_16 1:19:02

Two sisters. I'm never remember the other chick name. Stop pulling up.

SPEAKER_04 1:19:08

All right, what else?

SPEAKER_16 1:19:12

Now we on your favorite part now.

SPEAKER_04 1:19:14

Oh, okay. Favorite part.

SPEAKER_00 1:19:18

Pull on stems, the wall got the ball run out. And tell the friend drop the gems. Back in the house once again. With the life that's a guns, and now Jemok. Like a big set. Pull on stems, the wall got the ball. Run out. And tell the friend drop a gem on the dropping gems.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:41

Alright. So I found this on on online that Nini, I seen you resp uh you responded to, and I kind of wanted to go in depth on what you meant. So they goes, bitches want a man to lead, but don't want to take direction. And I was like, oh, okay. I wonder what people think about that. And I see Nene under there was like, it's not the woman. It's the type of directions that's being given.

SPEAKER_16 1:20:10

That part.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:11

And I a lot of people follow that sentiment. What about a direction?

SPEAKER_16 1:20:19

Because you know what? It's just like when females howl about, oh, men don't do this, and then in the And yada yada yada wit out you know really thinking about why. So for him to say that, I'm like, well, maybe the direction you're trying to give ain't the right direction. Well, if you because most men don't want to listen to the female when she's saying, like, that ain't it.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:44

Well, if you're asking me to lead, right, why question my direction in the first place? You're asking me to lead. You want me to be the lead. So, alright. So if you if if we're being looked at to lead, or if you're coming into this relationship and you want me to lead, and I am doing so by providing direction. Why question the direction if you want to if you if you didn't want me to lead in the first place?

SPEAKER_16 1:21:17

Questioning something doesn't mean that I don't want you to lead. It's just questioning why are we going this way when it's probably not the right way. It's not it's not telling you to stop leading me. It's telling you like where you're leading us is not working. Find something else. And if you can't take constructive criticism, if I'm questioning what you're doing, then there's a problem. What's wrong with that? You won't blindly go just because somebody's just because you say, Oh, I need a leader, and you find a leader, so if I say you're gonna automatically just not question that leader.

SPEAKER_05 1:21:48

So if you find something off. So we're we're talking, I I think so. If I'm saying, hey, don't invest in that, and I'm saying the reasons why you shouldn't invest in that, you're gonna question my leadership because now you say, hey, everybody else is saying, or I don't think you're leading me in the right place, I'm gonna invest in it anyway, and now we're flat broke.

SPEAKER_16 1:22:11

I don't think that's what that person is talking about, and I doubt I doubt that that's the question.

SPEAKER_05 1:22:15

No, I'm I'm not talking, see, I think you're taking lead.

SPEAKER_16 1:22:19

No, but I'm no no no. I mean, honestly, like if that's something like for me, you saying that, I'm not gonna find an issue with that.

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SPEAKER_05 1:22:28

But that's what that's what he's saying. Yeah, you want us to lead. You you want us to lead, and you and I we're we're not talking about actual direction of this relationship, right? We're we're we're talking about the things that I'm trying to put in place so that the direction of the relationship can go into a better spot.

SPEAKER_16 1:22:46

So if I question you off the rip, that's a problem.

SPEAKER_05 1:22:50

No, if you're question if you're if you're gonna question the direction if it has to do with something that I'm trying to lead in. That's you for example, finance or uh decision making about something that that we need, you know, I'm trying to, hey, we should do this in the decision. I think lead in those type of ways in a relationship.

SPEAKER_16 1:23:09

And still not have questions? There's always gonna be a question.

SPEAKER_05 1:23:12

Yeah, but okay. So if I'm saying, look, I I think you you gotta you got a thousand dollars and you have a habit of spending money before you even have it in your hand. And I'm gonna say, hey, I think you should invest at least half of that. You're saying you're gonna question that?

SPEAKER_16 1:23:33

If that person questions that, and it's what you're telling them is beneficial for them, so what I'm not knocking is what the leadership is. I'm just saying, like, sometimes the direction that is given may need to be questioned. But if that like not all not all the direction needs to be questioned.

SPEAKER_05 1:23:56

I'm just saying that's all I'm saying. Yeah, obviously.

SPEAKER_03 1:24:00

I understand what both of y'all saying. Yeah, yeah. And I think because what you're saying, I get. And then I think what Nini, what you're saying is like, okay, so your scenario of what his scenario is not the scenario I'm thinking of.

SPEAKER_16 1:24:15

No, no, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_03 1:24:16

I'm just saying, placing that in that scenario this topic. So if your quote unquote guy is trying to be a leader in the relationship and sees that where there's ways that you could improve on not just for her, for us. Right, right, right, yeah, yeah, yeah. But so you're coming at it with good intentions. Yeah. But from the other side of that, if that person don't see, well, what are you actually doing with your finances on your side, or are you actually saving or investing? So how are you gonna give me that type of advice if you're not actually following your own advice? Following the own or showing that, you know, because you're supposed to be able to um lead by example, and if they're not seeing that example, but they're just getting that type of advice, then they're like, well, then that's where the question may come in.

SPEAKER_16 1:25:13

Right.

SPEAKER_05 1:25:13

But if it's not but that sounds like a relationship that's just starting, like no. So if I don't understand then, like how how how is he supposed to lead? Right? So I'm trying to understand the scenario here, right? Like I'm trying to I'm coming from a point where he's coming in a relationship where he's already moving it a certain way. And I think the reason why she's interested, because she's interested because he's moving in that certain way. Right? That's why women get attracted to men, right? Because they see traits of him being doing things that's m possibly successful for him, and so that they're attracted to certain things that make him go in that particular direction. So they want to be a part of that. Yes?

SPEAKER_03 1:26:06

Sometimes sometimes they just see sex, right? See that they're a good looking person.

SPEAKER_05 1:26:12

So if that's the if that's the case, and I'm and I'm already on a trajectory, you come in in for sex, and it becomes it blossoms into something else, and I'm seeing things that doesn't align with the direction I'm going. My leadership at that point is say, hey, if you want to be on this ride with me, I think I can help you get on the same direction. And then start you now, you're questioning that direction is kind of crazy.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:35

Or have been able to point out things where they feel like you're not moving in a certain direction. And they're like, Well, how are you trying to do that?

SPEAKER_05 1:26:44

I've been I was moving in my own direction before you jumped on a ride.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:47

But they were too.

SPEAKER_05 1:26:48

Right. Right. So if you're in track, if you're attracted to me, right? And I'm just I'm saying this in a in a biased way because I'm saying they have to be attracted to the male. I'm not I'm not looking at it for the male to be attracted to a female because that that's a scenario too. But I'm not I'm not attacking it at that scenario. Yeah. Because of the quote. The quote saying they they want this man to lead, and then they question the direction of their leadership. So it's like if I'm on a if I'm on a path of where I'm going, good or bad, right? Something attracted to you you to me, right? Something attracted you to me, right? So if you if you see if you realize that my trajectory isn't where you think it is, get off the train at this point.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:31

But no, it nobody just hops off like, but it also doesn't mean that all of your somebody hops off, right? It doesn't mean that every aspect of it is wrong, right?

SPEAKER_05 1:27:43

Right, okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:45

You can be on a a positive trajectory on certain things in your life and for your relationship, which is fine, but then there could be other areas that you ain't so great at or you're falling off to, and they're like, Well, you don't got all your shit together, so I'm not just gonna put all my trust in your leadership because I don't see it a hundred percent.

SPEAKER_16 1:28:07

And at the same time, on that point that I wanted to say, like he said it perfectly how I wanted to wanted it to come out, but it doesn't mean that it's necessary a bad thing, it just comes upon the man who auto who automatically decides, well, you wanted me to lead, how dare you question me? That's why I'm like, well, y'all visions might not be the same. So she may be trying to figure it out, like, hey, this ain't this ain't what is given. But because the person is in their head, like, nah, this is what it is, that's just being stubborn, and that's how I took that.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:45

Yeah, I I see. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_16 1:28:46

So yeah, so it's just like you have to look at yourself too.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:50

Right.

SPEAKER_16 1:28:51

That's it.

SPEAKER_05 1:28:52

Yeah, I get it.

SPEAKER_16 1:28:53

I mean, it's a that's why my so that's why I responded that way, because it might not be her, it might be the direction you given.

SPEAKER_05 1:29:00

Right.

SPEAKER_16 1:29:00

It's not working. We have people down the wrong path. Right.

SPEAKER_05 1:29:04

I'm sure that yeah, that happens all the time.

SPEAKER_16 1:29:07

Right. It's not a male attack, it's not a female attack. It's I said the direction is not right.

SPEAKER_02 1:29:13

Right, right, right.

SPEAKER_03 1:29:14

That's it. And now on the other side of that, I do see the other side where you will have a man who has all this shit together being trying to be a leader in a relationship, and then you just have these females that just don't have no ambition. Right. Or they just don't want nobody to tell them. Yeah, that's the stance I was taking.

SPEAKER_05 1:29:31

I was taking that stance on a man that actually got something going for himself. Yeah. Um to where they it's it I and I'm sure it it's a couple thing, right? It's it's it's you gotta look at both views here. I was just taking a stance on the man's side, but yes, uh if you're in a relationship and you if the your your lady is saying, yo, I I know you and where you're going right now on that decision, I I don't think she I don't think that's right.

SPEAKER_16 1:30:00

Right. And yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:30:02

It's not like the whole leadership is being questioned, it's just that particular decision is not so I I get that.

SPEAKER_16 1:30:08

Yeah, and that's why, and basically I said what I said because that was a general statement.

SPEAKER_05 1:30:12

Like, I lead, yeah, you know what I'm saying? And the response was so general, it's sort of like, well, what kind of directions you get? It was more like a it's like a combat a combative response. Like, why do you want to be combative? Like, bitch, I'm trying to lead. You wanted a leader.

SPEAKER_16 1:30:29

Yeah, and and and off of knowing who's supposed to that, that's why my response was like that. Like, come on, we everybody, y'all need to stop checking y'all. That is very true, too. Y'all need to start checking yourself. That is very true.

SPEAKER_05 1:30:39

Sometimes it's not some of these quotes come from people that's not living in reality. Exactly.

SPEAKER_16 1:30:44

That's why I said it. I'm like, and then first of all, when you lead where bitches wanna know, yeah, that's your problem.

SPEAKER_05 1:30:49

The bitches right there through through the phone. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_16 1:30:56

Because we not talking about bitches.

SPEAKER_05 1:30:58

Yeah. So if you stop dating bitches and get your bitch, you try to leave bitches, the bitches is like fuck you in your direction.

SPEAKER_03 1:31:05

Exactly. Because sometimes that quote unquote leader, you need to look at what type of females you actually deal with. Exactly. And you want to be upset that they don't want to take your leadership with you.

SPEAKER_05 1:31:19

Yeah, yeah. Real estate. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Very true. If you dealing with it does, it does uh requ uh require the like where it's coming from. Like the messenger. Like, you can't be taking that shit.

SPEAKER_16 1:31:32

You can't go with no shit, be dealing with a chick who calls herself an alpha female, then you ain't she ain't looking for nothing.

SPEAKER_05 1:31:40

Yeah, very true. Very true. Very true. That was good. I like that.

SPEAKER_03 1:31:44

Picasso.

SPEAKER_05 1:31:45

Picasso.

SPEAKER_03 1:31:48

You haven't said that.

SPEAKER_16 1:31:49

I know. He's about to start saying it again. I know.

SPEAKER_05 1:31:53

Picasso. Uh second uh Jim. Uh no man alive would slap their baby mama for$600,000. The hell they lie. Yo. That was a laugh. Yo, the the the comments all say I slap the bitch for free.

SPEAKER_03 1:32:17

I was about to make a sign that said, line your baby mamas up, but that just shows you how much domestic we are.

SPEAKER_05 1:32:25

We don't give a fuck. That shows how much money we are like. Yeah. Greed would lead to domestic violence. I'll slap the shit out of you for.

SPEAKER_03 1:32:34

It don't even have to necessarily be greed. It's just a simple fact that, like, look at the people trying to survive. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:32:41

But the fact they do it for free is is crazy. Like you're allowing yourself to get slapped. And these niggas on here proud. Like, I slapped this motherfucker free. Like, yo, you should not be on here saying that. That's why you're not the leader. You feel what I'm saying? Well, maybe they are because they're slapping their way through it. That's true. Leadership. Slapping their way through it. But yeah. 600,000. I'll slap the shit out of my baby mama.

SPEAKER_16 1:33:13

I'll slap the shit out of somebody fucking baby mama. I will put, I will dress up as a nigga. And be like, that's my baby mama. Slap the big shit. Let it boy.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:24

Shit.

SPEAKER_14 1:33:25

Bitches is getting slapped.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:27

I'm slapping my mother for 600,000.

SPEAKER_14 1:33:30

Yo.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:33

My mama gonna go shopping after. Hold up.

SPEAKER_05 1:33:36

I don't think I can slap my mama for 60k.

SPEAKER_16 1:33:38

I'm slapping the shit out of my mother 50k.

SPEAKER_05 1:33:42

Yeah, I can't do that.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:43

I can't slap the mic.

SPEAKER_16 1:33:44

Slapping the shit out of my mother for 50k.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:47

Yo. Me and my mother gonna have a conversation beforehand. I'm like, look. Nah, I we gotta go get this$600,000 uh bottle of pepper.

Dropping Gems: Leadership, Money, And Red Flags

SPEAKER_05 1:33:58

Yo. Nah, I don't think they might have to triple that for me to even consider.

SPEAKER_16 1:34:03

Slap the shit out of my daddy for$600.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:06

That's saying something.

SPEAKER_16 1:34:09

It's such a K ain't no little bit of money. You right.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:13

That's a mama though. That's my mama though.

SPEAKER_16 1:34:16

Like that's more than half a million.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:17

So hold up. I would have slapped her like a year and a half ago when we wasn't talking.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:22

I slapped the shit out of her then like for 600,000. But now my question is, would you not give your mother any of the money? Is that why you don't want to slap her because you feel like I'm keeping the whole thing?

SPEAKER_05 1:34:32

No, she wouldn't give a shit.

SPEAKER_16 1:34:33

She wouldn't besides they didn't put no stipulation on how hard you're gonna slap your mother. Very true. It's a slap. Right?

SPEAKER_05 1:34:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 1:34:39

She could be like, oh, 600k.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:41

If that's the case, she would she wouldn't she wouldn't make me slap her. That's the type of mama she is. She was just like, oh, go ahead.

SPEAKER_16 1:34:49

I'd be like, ma, loosen your wig up and make it look like it's gonna fly off when I hit you.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:54

You should gotta do it.

SPEAKER_16 1:34:55

That's my point. She comes to the Bible hair wig.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:00

Yo. Making that same noise. All right. Your mother needs a lead. Last last gym. Last gym.

SPEAKER_16 1:35:09

You say my mother need a beat.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:14

Alright, last gym. When someone says musical genius, who is the first artist come that comes to mind?

SPEAKER_16 1:35:21

Michael Jackson.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:24

I I was gonna say Prince, too. And I love that.

SPEAKER_03 1:35:31

It's a toss-up between Michael Jackson and Prince, but Prince just he was something instruments, all the instruments.

SPEAKER_16 1:35:39

Yeah, that's true, because Michael ain't playing shit.

SPEAKER_03 1:35:42

He played with his shoes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_16 1:35:44

Monkeys and boys. And his bow ties. Don't do that.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:47

I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_16 1:35:48

Don't do that.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:49

I love you, Mike.

SPEAKER_16 1:35:50

Macaulay Calkin said that shit ain't true.

SPEAKER_05 1:35:52

Macaulay Calkin can lie too. He was left home alone. He was left home alone. Yeah, I I I will go, Prince.

SPEAKER_16 1:36:12

The devil's a great deal, boy. He was about to fight.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:19

Yo, Prince Bob Marley and like um Prince Bob Marley and um I just had a minute. Ray Charles. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_16 1:36:34

He was blind.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:37

See if you wonder blind too.

SPEAKER_16 1:36:39

Yeah. Or Ray Charles. What'd she do?

SPEAKER_05 1:36:42

Blind's definitely gone. Oh shit.

SPEAKER_16 1:36:47

That stayed in. I just will let you know that is staying all the way. All the way. Nothing.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:58

That was her too. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Crazy. All right. That's my gems.

SPEAKER_00 1:37:09

Back in the house once again. Live the life down of dollars and guns and now James Bogat. Like a big sand, pull on stems. The ball got the ball run out. Tell the friend drop a gem on right, so that's that.

SPEAKER_04 1:37:32

Uh any uh any closing uh anybody got something they want to say before we leave?

SPEAKER_14 1:37:40

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 1:37:41

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_14 1:37:45

I said it.

SPEAKER_04 1:37:47

Okay. All right.

SPEAKER_14 1:37:48

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_04 1:37:52

Nobody closing? Are you good? Am I good? Am I good?

SPEAKER_16 1:37:56

Spread your wings and fly. You know what? Actually, let us know if you work with an idiot for a co-worker. Oh my god. That's good. Like, I I need to hear about it. Give us a slight story of why you're. Let us know. We could talk about it. Let's talk about it.

SPEAKER_04 1:38:15

Oh my God. I don't have nothing else to say. All right.

SPEAKER_16 1:38:21

Mm-mm. Alright, later y'all. Bye guys.

unknown 1:38:30

I tell you how that's like you're stepping on your kid. I tell you how that when you step in when you come here. I turn it on, my baby, when you come here. I turn it on, my baby. Take it up. Baby, you look your fire. I have you open all night like you eye. I take it home, baby, let you keep me company. You give me some of you, I give you some of me. You look good, baby, but stay epidemic. I'm pretty sure that you got your own recipe. So pick it up, pick it up, yeah. I just can't get enough. I gotta drive through. Cause it's me, you, you, me, me, you. All night, back at your way before, way before I feed your appetite. Let me get my ticket, baby. Let me get it line. I can feel the way you like it, baby. Super size. Hold on, you got yours, let me get line.

SPEAKER_12 1:39:12

I ain't gonna wanna close eye.